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As an introvert, these six ideas motivate me the most:
1. You're not any less 'social' than an extrovert.
self
Sep 15, 2024
Twenty-one sentences that will make you a better writer than 98% of people
Learn these to triple your engagement.
writing
Sep 15, 2024
Twelve brutal truths about success few dare tell you
39 years on this planet has been a hell of a ride.
self
Sep 14, 2024
Twenty-one simple tricks to instantly make your writing more impactful
What I learned from sixteen years of sharing my writing online
writing
Sep 14, 2024
At 39, here are 16 things I'd tell my 19-year-old self about making the most of every day
As I teeter on the edge of what many consider a major life milestone (40 years), I feel reflective.
self
Sep 14, 2024
Ten unusual behaviours that make people respect you more
Years of sharing this planet with you weirdos taught me much.
relationships
Sep 13, 2024
The twelve habits of the calmest people I know
Maintaining calm is one of the most powerful life skills.
self
Sep 13, 2024
Seven life 'shortcuts' that actually work
There are no shortcuts in life.
self
Sep 13, 2024
28 good reasons to write
Writing makes you want to write more.
writing
Sep 12, 2024
If you get jealous seeing others' success online, read this
Here's how to see things in a way that empowers you and your online writing.
writing
Sep 12, 2024
Seven things almost no one does that will attract people to you
I've learned that a significant part of attraction is rooted in standing out from the crowd.
relationships
self
Sep 12, 2024
Seven game-changing things I learned that helped me find more harmony with other people
Over the years, other people have brought me pain and joy in about equal measure.
self
Sep 11, 2024
The Antisocial Playbook: 14 ruthless tactics for digital domination
Playing nice so you don't hurt anyone's feelings won't grow your brand.
marketing
Sep 10, 2024
If you feel like no one gives a crap about you...
(read this to change this):
self
Sep 10, 2024
Six subtle behaviours that make others fall in love with you
Years of awkward dates, stunted relationships and lost clients have taught me much.
relationships
Sep 09, 2024
The Time-Lapse Clearing (short fiction)
I knew something had changed the moment I stepped into the clearing — a hidden oasis in a desert of pine and oak.
fiction
Sep 08, 2024
Nine forbidden habits of the most elite performers in the world
These habits are probably not for you...
lifestyle
productivity
self
Sep 08, 2024
How to be as original as Pablo Picasso
People think of Pablo Picasso as a highly original genius.
creativity
writing
Sep 08, 2024
If you're stuck with your writing, these twelve little things will instantly nourish you
A friend of mine was telling me about how he used to have a solid content-writing habit but recently fell off.
writing
Sep 07, 2024
Fifteen short tips that help you see things most people miss
Wait a minute, Alex, what exactly are we saying here?
creativity
self
Sep 07, 2024
A neat trick for writer's block
People ask me how I manage to write so consistently.
writing
Sep 06, 2024
How I attract more of what I want into my life (for real)
Think for a second about why you don't want to do things.
self
Sep 06, 2024
Nine unique habits that will motivate you more than 95% of people
For most of my life, I believed motivation was a personality trait possessed by the lucky few.
productivity
self
Sep 05, 2024
Thirteen naughty daily habits that make you feel like a happy Spartan King
Society wants you weak, depressed, submissive and docile.
self
Sep 05, 2024
This little reframe cures online jealousy and doubt
A lot of my clients come to me and tell me they struggle to use social media because it's bad for their mental health.
marketing
social-media
Sep 04, 2024
Nine subtle behaviours that keep you calm when you're nervous
From a lot of personal experience, I know how self-conscious we can be in certain situations. Nerves mean we're in our heads and not there...
self
Sep 04, 2024
Why 'be yourself' is crap advice for writers
Most of us want our writing to connect emotionally with our readers.
writing
Sep 03, 2024
I thought I sucked as an online writer until I did this...
I hate how I have to do so much work just to get a few followers these days.
writing
marketing
Sep 03, 2024
How to clone yourself so your online brand grows faster
I don't know if you've noticed, but building a personal brand well into the future seems like a ton of work.
marketing
Sep 02, 2024
Eight things I know about being more productive I wish I knew when I was younger...
I'm 38 and know what it's like to feel unproductive.
productivity
Sep 02, 2024
Why that creative project you always wanted to start is a high-priority
I've been wanting to write fiction for years.
writing
Sep 02, 2024
Thousands of hours showed me why most people get writing wrong
I wrote hundreds of articles before anyone cared.
writing
Sep 01, 2024
Eight impactful questions I ask myself regularly to help me focus on what matters
Feeling aimless has taken up a considerable chunk of my experience.
self
Sep 01, 2024
You're struggling to write because you made it feel like an obligation
What sounds better to you?
writing
Aug 31, 2024
Remember — you can't fail if you don't quit
You can't fail if you do not quit.
self
Aug 31, 2024
Ten things you must do if you want to rediscover who you really are:
So many of us are just coasting.
self
Aug 30, 2024
Seven subtle behaviours that are highly attractive to most people
Years of awkwardly bumbling through social situations and saying dumb stuff prompted me to take a keen interest in human behaviour.
relationships
self
Aug 30, 2024
Ask this one question as you go through your day to gain an unfair advantage
Working for myself now for over a decade has shown me something valuable:
self
Aug 30, 2024
What to do if you feel like an outsider
I used to hate feeling like a freak.
self
Aug 29, 2024
Six traits of people who are immune to deception from other people
I'd love to say we live in a world in which everyone is totally honest, and no one is out to deceive you intentionally.
self
Aug 29, 2024
What if 'imposter syndrome' was just a sign you were on the right path?
James Altucher once said something that stuck with me:
writing
self
Aug 28, 2024
10 ways to simplify your life
Life taught me that things get easier when we keep it simple.
writing
self
Aug 28, 2024
Twenty one sentences that will make you mentally stronger than 98% of people
Let's dive right in:
mental-health
self
Aug 27, 2024
Nine subtle behaviours that attract people to you
I had a socially-anxious youth, continuously in self-doubt and concerned for the thoughts and judgements of others.
self
Aug 27, 2024
How writing doesn't need to be complicated (the writing enjoyer's guide)
I've been writing things online for more than fifteen years.
writing
Aug 26, 2024
Writing gets better when you fall in love with:
The blank page.
writing
Aug 26, 2024
The courage to spend more time alone
I used to feel ashamed that I enjoyed spending a lot of time alone.
writing
self
Aug 25, 2024
Fourteen things I wish I knew at 25 (now that I'm 39)
It's a time to reflect.
self
Aug 25, 2024
Ten tiny behaviour shifts you can make that will make people strangely drawn to you
I could fill many boxes with stacks of lists documenting all the times I did something awkward or pushed others away.
self
Aug 24, 2024
Quit any one of these habits, and your anxiety will instantly decrease
Feeling some anxiety is part of the human experience and helps us navigate dangers and obstacles.
writing
self
Aug 24, 2024
Why showing up consistently, even if it's hard, will change everything
It is hard to move out of the darkness.
self
Aug 23, 2024
Eight secret psychology mantras that make you a money magnet
Ideas can make or break your progress.
money
Aug 23, 2024
Seven things you can do to get over the hump of little traction and few followers
It sucks to put effort into writing things for the Internet, hit publish and hear a chorus of engaged crickets.
marketing
social-media
Aug 22, 2024
Twenty-two List-Writing Ideas to Transform Your Work and Make You More Badass
Lists are highly cool.
creativity
writing
Aug 21, 2024
Nine fun habits that will make you more money
Making money needn't be painful.
money
Aug 20, 2024
Life will bite you if you ignore these six strange truths
Let's get straight into it...
self
Aug 20, 2024
The seven habits of the most unreasonably creative people
Creativity has always fascinated me because to be creative is what it means to be human.
creativity
Aug 18, 2024
Seven societal lies you need to challenge today so you can be instantly free of that heavy feeling...
Do you ever feel like you're carrying an invisible weight you can't describe?
self
Aug 18, 2024
Eight behaviours that instantly increase your perceived status
People make snap judgements about who they think you are based on extremely subtle cues.
self
Aug 17, 2024
Eight ways to explore your dark side (and tap into insane energy)
Tapping into our 'dark side' represents one of our greatest opportunities for living a life of enjoyment, satisfaction and drive.
self
Aug 16, 2024
When you've lost your sense of purpose adopt this thinking...
I'm falling through wet cloud.
writing
self
Aug 16, 2024
Fourteen tips for head-turning writing you won't find in any writing manual
Fourteen years of writing online, mostly crap, with a few gems, has taught me much.
writing
Aug 16, 2024
Nine things Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power taught me about building a lucrative coaching business
I've been a business and life coach for over eight years.
freelancing
marketing
Aug 15, 2024
25 things I'd tell my younger, anxious self to feel
What I learned over 38 years I wish I was told when I was younger.
self
Aug 14, 2024
No, you don't need to have gone through hardship to be happy
I see people talking about how the kindest, friendliest, happiest people are often those who went through loads of misery.
self
Aug 13, 2024
If you're exhausted from publishing content (like me), this is why you need to IGNORE the...
A couple of years ago, I wrote threads on X for hundreds of days in a row.
creativity
writing
Aug 13, 2024
The six unusual secrets of the happiest people
I've lived a life with plenty of unnecessary struggle, heartbreak and frustration.
self
Aug 12, 2024
Six steps to mastering the art of non-resistance (so your confidence rockets)
Two people sit under a large tree on a bench by the river.
self
Aug 12, 2024
If your content feels lifeless, and you're not motivated, try inviting your reader into your house
Some of my clients come to me and say, 'Alex, I don't know what else to write about.'
marketing
Aug 11, 2024
Eight little behaviours blocking you from notable success
Are you holding yourself back from 'success?'
self
Aug 11, 2024
Nine small things you can do right now if you're struggling
I've had many moments when I felt tired, fed up, overwhelmed and in despair.
self
Aug 10, 2024
Nine daily habits of the most determined people I know
Read this if you want to stay energised over the long term.
self
Aug 09, 2024
Instead of making a drastic change when you are not feeling it, do this...
It's easy to feel bored with life and say something like:
self
Aug 09, 2024
Seven things you can do right now to feel great for the rest of your day
Seven things you can do right now to feel great for the rest of your day
self
Aug 08, 2024
I was so frustrated with how little engagement my writing was getting until I made this simple...
Build a newsletter of loyal subscribers and buyers using this system...
writing
marketing
Aug 08, 2024
Why trying to be impressive reduces your impact
'Oh my goodness! Jason was so impressive!'
self
Aug 07, 2024
Illustrated quotes to raise your frequency and make you fearless
Ralph Waldo Emerson once said:
self
Aug 07, 2024
Eleven elements of a stand-out personal brand that gathers thousands of fans
For many years I had no idea who I was online.
marketing
Aug 06, 2024
Why we have self-doubt and nine ways to drop the doubt and realise our inner badass
A common struggle of those in my community is self-doubt.
self
Aug 06, 2024
How to become stronger even if life gets harder
Today, a reader of mine asked me if I could show him how to be more 'anti-fragile.'
self
work
Aug 05, 2024
54 words guaranteed to make more people stop and take notice of your writing (a must-read for...
I've written hundreds of articles that barely anyone read.
writing
Aug 05, 2024
How I stay consistent and motivated writing an article most days
I write a new article every day.
writing
Aug 05, 2024
Fourteen unusual ideas that will make you a more effortlessly consistent writer
You've heard it before. Consistency is one of the most important — if not the most critical skills — in your arsenal as an online writer...
writing
Aug 04, 2024
The most fulfilled introverts avoid these eight things
I'm an 'introvert.'
self
Aug 04, 2024
Eight innocent behaviours that age you twice as fast
I don't know about you, but I love life enough to want to experience it for as long as possible.
self
Aug 04, 2024
Your writing likely sucks — not because you can't write — but because your ideas are not...
Here's how to transform your content into high-concept content...
writing
Aug 02, 2024
One freaking thing at a time — a simple strategy for being a productive powerhouse
Picture a box of juicy oranges in front of you.
productivity
Aug 01, 2024
Eight things to do if you just can't focus
I know what it's like to feel like you have much to do but can't seem to find the motivation to get moving.
productivity
self
Aug 01, 2024
What, you didn't know? Obsession is the reward
I'm afraid I have to diagnose you with a rather acute case.
self
Jul 31, 2024
Avoid these eight behaviours if you don't want to be ignored
There are downsides to always being seen. But there are many reasons we'd want to stand out too.
self
Jul 31, 2024
Eleven little behaviours that make you instantly immune from giving an F about what others think
I've given many shits about what people think all my life.
self
Jul 30, 2024
Using mantras to build powerful mental strength
"You stupid, dumb fool! What have you done?"
self
Jul 30, 2024
Seven habits of highly productive creators
If you were to ask me who my idols were, I quickly think of people like Picasso, Asimov, DaVinci, Aphex Twin, Agatha Christie, and Ridley...
creativity
Jul 29, 2024
If you're struggling to start the thing (yeah, that thing), read this...
A lot of us never get started, let alone get anything going.
self
Jul 29, 2024
Twenty four questions you can ask yourself to find a breakthrough quickly
Yes, you can't find a way through.
writing
Jul 28, 2024
How to cultivate self-confidence for long-term health benefits
Steve Jobs once said that one of the best doctors, among things like a good diet and exercise, is self-confidence.
self
Jul 28, 2024
Six things I am doing right now to improve my odds of success greatly
It's time to draw a line in the sand, friend.
startups
Jul 27, 2024
Seven habits of the most energised people I know
A lot of people espouse the importance of time management.
productivity
self
Jul 27, 2024
Why you don't need to wait to start monetising your audience. In fact, you must start right away
There's a misconception that you must wait TIME before monetising your audience.
marketing
Jul 27, 2024
It's not more information you need, but you do need to act
I love to read and absorb new information.
productivity
self
Jul 26, 2024
Six steps to making paid membership money from a Substack newsletter
I have two newsletters.
writing
marketing
Jul 26, 2024
Eight seemingly harmless habits you're doing that make you miserable
One thing I learned over years and years of amazing highs and terrible lows:
self
Jul 24, 2024
How to reawaken the warrior in you today so you create with power...
I'll be honest; I've been feeling flat and rather uninspired lately.
self
Jul 24, 2024
10 things that will give you a huge unfair advantage if you're courageous
The highest quality fruit often requires you to climb deeper into the tree to collect them for yourself.
self
Jul 23, 2024
How to be confident
How to be confident
self
Jul 23, 2024
Why you will never 'find' your purpose
Why you must create your experience today
creativity
self
Jul 22, 2024
Fourteen dirty little secrets that will quadruple your productivity (I'm not even joking)
A major lesson for me in my 39 years: it shouldn't take drastic change to make a huge impact.
creativity
productivity
Jul 22, 2024
Twelve tiny changes that will transform your writing within 24 hours
Writing is a lifelong craft.
writing
Jul 22, 2024
Here's how to turn challenges into opportunities so you welcome failure
I love my life.
self
work
Jul 21, 2024
If you want to be a leader people respect, avoid these ten things
You don't need to be the CEO of a glitzy corporation to be a leader.
leadership
Jul 21, 2024
You know it's good when it feels weird
I have a month to prepare for my course launch on building a system that gets you daily newsletter subscribers.
writing
Jul 20, 2024
Do these six things if anger controls your life
I used to be a hothead, which rendered me pretty useless in those moments.
self
Jul 20, 2024
Ten of the best things we can learn from Strunk and White on writing better non-fiction
I'm sitting at a cafe at the airport, waiting for a flight from Tallinn to London. I feel a sense of soft sadness for leaving after five...
writing
Jul 19, 2024
When you have doubts about the path you're on...
You ever get that voice in your head that asks:
writing
self
Jul 19, 2024
Twelve mistakes solopreneurs make that stop them bringing in hundreds of daily subscribers and...
I've been growing my newsletter on and off for over a decade.
marketing
work
startups
Jul 19, 2024
Eight ways to stop being so uptight so you enjoy life far more
Hey Malcolm, buddy, 'stop taking life so seriously!'
self
Jul 18, 2024
If you suffered a 'failure,' read this
You really wanted it, but it didn't work out.
self
Jul 18, 2024
Stop trying to focus and do this instead:
'I wish I could find my focus,' you say.
productivity
Jul 17, 2024
How to make your readers fall in love with your writing
17 documented ways to use words to grow a movement of people who can't get enough.
writing
Jul 17, 2024
Twenty one sentences that will make you less anxious than 97% of people
Anxiety is becoming increasingly more common.
mental-health
self
Jul 17, 2024
Do the thing most people refuse to do to get an unfair advantage
Do you do what most people do?
writing
self
Jul 16, 2024
Eight unusual habits of the super successful few talk about
Here are some less-talked-about traits about successful people, which have informed my own successes:
productivity
self
Jul 16, 2024
Fourteen rules for living the good life (in less than 600 words)
I ain't here to preach.
self
Jul 15, 2024
Why thinking we have a 'self' to protect is the cause of all our suffering
All our suffering stems from the belief we have a 'self' to protect.
self
Jul 13, 2024
I just self-published a book and sold over 600 copies in a week.
Recently, I shared my latest book, 'The Art of Self Respect,' with the world.
writing
Jul 13, 2024
Ten ways to inject creativity into your veins (no one talks about)
Acting on unique solutions to problems will set you apart in an AI world.
creativity
Jul 13, 2024
How to be insanely creative without burning out
I beat myself up when I procrastinate.
creativity
writing
Jul 09, 2024
Nine understated behaviours that make people admire you
Being an awkward teen forced me to take a keen interest in human behaviour.
self
Jul 08, 2024
Ten simple habits that quickly raise your intelligence
Have you ever done one of those online IQ tests or intelligence tests?
productivity
self
Jul 07, 2024
Seven simple relaxation hacks to calm you instantly
I'm no stranger to anxiety, and stimulation hits me harder than many. Poor snowflake.
lifestyle
mental-health
self
Jul 05, 2024
Six ways to remedy distressing life situations
I'm no stranger to seemingly awful things happening and the hollow feeling in my chest that accompanies them.
mental-health
self
Jul 04, 2024
How to make your content turn heads by turning common ideas upside down...
So many people share tired ideas that gather little interest.
writing
marketing
Jul 03, 2024
If you're worried about money, read this for quick relief
Who is human who hasn't worried about money?
money
self
Jul 03, 2024
The six subtle behaviours of people with the least drama in their lives
Life's too short for unnecessary drama.
self
Jul 03, 2024
Do these six things every day and you will find it hard to fall short of your dreams
The economy sucks, people are dicks, and life is hard.
productivity
self
Jul 02, 2024
These four things will 10x your discipline in a week
(This will change your life)
productivity
self
Jul 02, 2024
Five ways to make it painful to give up your consistent writing habit
There are many good reasons to stop writing consistently.
writing
Jul 01, 2024
14 ways I've used ChatGPT to make life easier and reduce stress
Someone shared a poll recently asking how often their readers had used ChatGPT in the last week, and I was surprised at the results.
productivity
Jun 30, 2024
The secret to winning as a creator? Do what matters with speed and in volume
You're frustrated.
creativity
Jun 30, 2024
The art of 'not shoulding' (and what this does to your performance)
When was the last time you 'shoulded?'
self
Jun 29, 2024
Why a productive mind is a mind you leave alone
A lot of people talk about getting burned out, and I get it.
productivity
Jun 29, 2024
Ten things every new online writer must know (to save time and frustration)
I've written (pretty much) consistently for over a decade and built an audience of over 150,000 souls.
writing
Jun 28, 2024
Eleven counterintuitive ways to improve your life (no one talks about these)
None of the ideas I'm about to share with you came from any self-help book.
self
Jun 28, 2024
Quirk marketing 101: How to grow a brand based on your quirks
Only freaks grow a successful personal brand.
marketing
Jun 27, 2024
All success is overcoming the panic one feels in the face of a challenge
Why can't this ever get easier?
mental-health
self
Jun 27, 2024
Eight tiny behaviours that lose you respect
Watching people around me in everyday life is like peering into a continually-running documentary on human behaviour.
self
Jun 26, 2024
I'm telling you right now, be a maniac.
Don't listen to the bozos who tell you to take it slow and 'just enjoy life.'
creativity
writing
Jun 25, 2024
Ten Uncommon Habits to Join the Top 1% in a Distracted, Modern World
You can choose a path that brings stability, fulfilment and a healthy dollop of fun.
money
self
Jun 25, 2024
Six immature decisions that will (drastically) sabotage your progress
I'm not always mature. Deep down, I'm still a kid.
self
Jun 25, 2024
The seven habits that will make you effortlessly independent
I've spent most of my life abroad.
self
Jun 24, 2024
Ten ways minimalism can simplify your life
I've incorporated minimalism into my life for over a decade.
lifestyle
productivity
self
Jun 23, 2024
The eight traits of the most indestructibly 'fearless' people I know
Fear and I have formed a very intimate relationship over the years.
self
Jun 22, 2024
Eight traits shared by those who avoid growing bitter as they get older
I see many people whose bitterness correlates directly to how many years they've been alive.
self
Jun 22, 2024
Jasper's Island (and the power of a still mind)
He lived alone on an island in a lake.
fiction
Jun 21, 2024
Ten behaviours that make people respect you more
I've learned a lot about human behaviour through years of awkwardness.
self
Jun 21, 2024
Eight things you can do to be in the top 2% of people in a chaotic world
I don't know if you've noticed, but the world is not predictable.
self
Jun 19, 2024
Six ways to become needed by your customers and clients so you have all the financial freedom you...
True freedom isn't necessarily living in a cabin, isolated and detached. It is to be needed — this gives us options.
work
Jun 19, 2024
The new skills we need so we aren't destroyed by the exponential growth of the Internet
Isn't the Internet marvellous?
self
Jun 18, 2024
That time I had to find $8,000 in less than two weeks...
Author's note: this was written several years ago
money
self
Jun 18, 2024
Stop doing these eleven things if you want more confidence today
My best teacher in life was deep despair.
self
Jun 17, 2024
Seven 'superficial' tips that will get you 10X further in life
It can sometimes feel like we're running on a hamster wheel of hell.
self
Jun 17, 2024
Nine cheeky little hacks that draw people to you (and they won't know why)
I spent most of my life wanting to connect better with people.
relationships
self
Jun 16, 2024
Eight steps to writing an article people love in less than 20 minutes
(If you just need to get something out or you want to be a speedy writing warrior)
writing
marketing
Jun 16, 2024
Sixteen little life hacks that will do more for your mental health than a year with any therapist
1. Every morning, write out your challenges and opportunities.
mental-health
Jun 15, 2024
Twelve cool ways people are making money online with their knowledge
Twelve cool ways people are making money online with their knowledge
freelancing
Jun 14, 2024
You can make money living anywhere if you do what I did
I've spent the majority of the last 14 years living overseas.
travel
Jun 14, 2024
You owe it to yourself right now to...
To stop, right now.
mindfulness
self
Jun 13, 2024
11 quotes from famous authors that will make you a better writer
For years, I've shared my ideas on how to improve as a writer.
writing
Jun 13, 2024
How to make it easier to start things when the last thing you want to do is start
Finishing things is mega important.
self
Jun 13, 2024
Four things I did to grow over 100,000 followers on Twitter in 10 months
I've been tweeting since 2008 and ditched an account with 24,000 followers in late 2021.
social-media
Jun 12, 2024
21 Sentences That Will Make You More Attractive Than Most
I put together this cheat sheet for quick reference.
self
Jun 11, 2024
How to Create So Much They Can't Ignore You
Isn't the Internet great?
creativity
Jun 11, 2024
A tip I use to make consistent writing 10x more enjoyable
Here's a power writing tip.
writing
Jun 11, 2024
How to supercharge the belief you have in your content and writing
Isn't there enough art in the world already?
creativity
writing
Jun 10, 2024
Ten ways regular writing gives you more freedom
When I struggle to find the excitement to continue writing, I remember the freedom it brings.
writing
Jun 10, 2024
Less is more: eight strategies for streamlining your online brand so you gain raving fans faster
Too many of us make audience growth, online business and this branding stuff more complicated than needed.
marketing
Jun 10, 2024
How making bigger bets might be scary, but you'll know who you really are
Most people live lives of quiet desperation.
self
Jun 09, 2024
Here's how you can make great money as a writer selling little courses in the next five years
(In 13 simple steps)
writing
Jun 09, 2024
Ten dirty little tricks that instantly raise your sense of self-respect
We can be experts at complicating our lives.
self
Jun 08, 2024
Eight thinking habits of geniuses, champions, and legacy-leavers
It's intriguing to extract behaviour patterns in those who left significant legacies behind.
self
Jun 08, 2024
Ten Simple Hacks You Can Use Right Now to Feel More Self-Confident
I've spent most of my life awkward, doubtful and twitchy nervous.
self
Jun 07, 2024
Eleven subtle behaviours that make people respect you more
I've learned a lot about human behaviour through years of awkwardness.
self
Jun 07, 2024
They will criticise and you are untouchable, so you may as well create
One of the biggest things stopping us from creating and sharing and persisting is the fear of criticism.
self
Jun 06, 2024
Eight things I do before I write to be a better writer
Why do anything worth doing when we're not in the zone?
writing
Jun 06, 2024
Eleven things you can do to add a little spice to your life
Do you ever feel like you could use more of an edge to feel more alive?
self
Jun 05, 2024
Four ways to stay emotionally resilient so you don't get broken by social media
Working on my brand and online business has brought conflict.
social-media
Jun 05, 2024
Ten behaviours that make you more mysterious
We live in a world where everyone shouts to be heard and seen. Like in any situation, there are always ways to take advantage, so everyone...
self
Jun 05, 2024
Getting paid to do the work you love is like retiring early
Finding a way to make money from what you love doing is like early retirement
self
Jun 04, 2024
Ten habits that quickly turn you into a super-creator
You can't be seriously saying that tiny shifts in our behaviour make us instantly more creative?
creativity
Jun 03, 2024
Six signs you're probably going to struggle until you die
Let's jump straight in...
self
Jun 03, 2024
It's nearly impossible to succeed as a one-person knowledge business without these ten...
I've been in the game of personal brand-building and making money without relying on a boss for 15 years.
work
Jun 02, 2024
These daily questions improve my life by 10x
Prolific writer Ray Bradbury once said:
productivity
Jun 02, 2024
Five things I do to reduce overthinking quickly
Overthinking and I share a long history.
mental-health
self
Jun 01, 2024
15 short ideas that help you master wanting less so your life transforms
The more we want, the more we suffer.
self
Jun 01, 2024
Nine ways you can quickly rewire your thinking to give less of a f*ck about what others think
I've spent most of my life caring far too much about the opinions of others. It made me nervous and avoidant and lost me opportunities.
self
May 31, 2024
How being productive can be EASY. (Really?)
If you're overwhelmed and procrastinate a lot and don't know where to start...
productivity
May 31, 2024
Eight hacks that quickly make you more socially confident
I've continually said that lasting freedom from unnecessary anxieties and social fears lies in developing a practice of letting go of...
self
May 30, 2024
Fourteen ways to calm your nerves before a call or event so you communicate more powerfully
Two things dictate the quality of your call or presentation more than anything else:
lifestyle
mental-health
May 29, 2024
The five subtle behaviours of fearless creators
The best creators are the least afraid of rejection.
self
May 29, 2024
If you're struggling to grow online, read this
A lot people are struggling to build an audience.
writing
marketing
social-media
May 28, 2024
If you want to decrease your anxiety, understand this simple thing:
I wish it didn't take me so long in life to figure out how to be less anxious.
mental-health
May 28, 2024
The power of personal essays: 15 writing prompts to spark inspiration
Some of my most impactful pieces of writing revolved around some personal and emotional story.
writing
self
May 28, 2024
Seven mind shifts that make you immune to the fear of online rejection
If we're to succeed, grow and make an impact online in this 'creator's economy,' we need to get real with the idea that people won't like...
self
social-media
May 27, 2024
Nine curious little tricks to create an insanely unfair advantage in your life
(Pssst, less than 2% of people do these)
self
May 27, 2024
The five subtle behaviours of the most respected people
Years of being confused by other people and feeling let down by many drove me to learn everything I could about human nature.
self
May 27, 2024
Ten ways to simplify growing your brand by getting help from your audience
The world is shifting in such a way that everything points to the value of building your own brand presence online.
marketing
May 26, 2024
Five little habits that will energise you through the day
We often fail to see how our overall happiness and wellness is driven by consistent habits. It's not a personality thing or what we're born...
self
May 26, 2024
How to be yourself
Why do we care so much about what others think?
self
May 26, 2024
Five lesser-known habits that make life 10x more enjoyable
I learned over the years not to depend on external events for my happiness.
self
May 25, 2024
How to use your 'willpower muscle' to gain anadvantage
It was getting absurd.
productivity
May 25, 2024
My writing finally attracted interest after this one big revelation
Nobody read my writing for years.
writing
May 24, 2024
How to feel better about your future as a writer when you're daunted by AI
Unless you've been sleeping in a tunnel with no wifi, you've seen the rapid recent improvements in artificial intelligence.
writing
marketing
May 24, 2024
Why doing this on regular walks helps me make better decisions
I know what it's like to regret making a poor decision.
productivity
self
May 23, 2024
Why you need to embrace your 'weird' for the sake of your aliveness and energy
Nathan was frequently depressed and he didn't know why.
mental-health
self
May 23, 2024
Knowing this will make you give less of a f*ck about what others think
I worry too much about what other people think of me.
self
May 22, 2024
Don't be ignored. Here are 17 quick ways to improve your writing
Many people are frustrated by the lack of interest people seem to have in their writing.
writing
May 21, 2024
Six things I learned in 39 years that I wish I knew younger
At 39, I still make lots of mistakes.
self
May 21, 2024
Cut out these 10 subtle habits if you hate feeling self-doubt:
Over many years, I learned to befriend doubt.
self
May 20, 2024
The mental 'hack' that diminishes your problems...
Take a moment to bring all your problems into your awareness all at the same time.
mental-health
self
May 20, 2024
Fifteen discreet ways you lose her attraction, bro
Most men are suffering deeply, completely invisible to women because they were denied these lessons from absent men.
relationships
May 20, 2024
Most people struggle with online business because they don't know their WHY
Clients often approach me to help them figure out how to stand out and get more engagement online.
marketing
May 19, 2024
Don't confuse your self-worth with your lack of experience
Many people — including me in the past — have tried things only to take the experience of failing personally.
self
May 19, 2024
You won't LOVE all the work you do, even purpose-driven work, and that's OK
You may find it inconceivable that you would see real success 'doing what you love.'
creativity
May 18, 2024
How building a newsletter of fans and buyers set me free and how you can do the same
'Trust me; you need to keep building your personal brand.'
writing
marketing
May 18, 2024
Seven subtle signs you might just make it
Life can be hard.
self
May 17, 2024
Fifteen effective ways to grow your newsletter this week
You could build your entire future through your newsletter.
marketing
May 17, 2024
Ten subtle body language signals of people who get more respect:
My name is Alex, and I specialise in being awkward.
self
May 17, 2024
Eight subtle things that make you more attractive (without changing your appearance)
I wasn't always comfortable speaking with people, let alone confident socially.
relationships
self
May 16, 2024
Six strange ways we're corroding our mental performance
Ever notice how distracted we're becoming?
productivity
self
May 16, 2024
Eight mental habits that make you wiser than most
Having wisdom means you just 'get it.'
self
May 15, 2024
How to build an online brand your people want to binge
Ever binged on a tv show?
marketing
May 15, 2024
Seven subtle ways you continually sabotage your success (and how to quickly turn that around)
Most of us race towards the grave with our foot on the break. We wonder why we never got what we dreamed of in our youth.
self
May 14, 2024
Forget alcohol. Here's how to get drunk on life.
Quick-hit short-term pleasures might be fun, but there's always a price to pay.
self
May 13, 2024
Ten reasons why in ten years you will be glad you wrote consistently online
It's very easy to get discouraged writing online.
writing
May 13, 2024
If you have a small audience online, and want things to happen, read this...
Previously shared on newsletter: MasteryDen.com
marketing
May 13, 2024
Seven outrageous little secrets that will turn you into a fearless badass overnight
Ever wonder why life seems to have given an indestructible quality to some people and not others?
self
May 12, 2024
Twenty five hard things you can do to gain 'unfair' leverage in life
I always say that to gain an unfair advantage in life, you need to be willing to do what few others want to do.
productivity
self
May 11, 2024
Five little things you can do today if your life lacks spark
We're all human and have phases where things can feel a little flat.
self
May 10, 2024
11 boring work obligations you can ignore to enjoy your life
Do you ever feel weighed down by obligations?
productivity
self
May 10, 2024
This one nugget of understanding will reduce your anxiety and improve your life
I've spent a sizeable chunk of my life uptight and nervous.
mental-health
self
May 10, 2024
Why endless choice is making us unhappy, and what to do about it today
I continually ask my readers what they're struggling with, and I've noticed a common thread.
self
May 09, 2024
95% of success is getting out of your own way. Here's how:
Life can confuse us and make it seem as though in order to be successful you need the right kind of:
self
May 09, 2024
15 tricks to help you attract new ideas quickly
Most of the world is in consumption mode. Far better to be a creator.
creativity
May 09, 2024
The happiest introverts do these six things
Years of being secretly overjoyed at cancelled social arrangements have taught me much.
self
May 08, 2024
Fifteen ideas for quick content so you have something you can publish even if you don't have much...
You said you'd commit to creating regular content so you get better at creating, develop discipline and grow an audience of fans.
marketing
May 07, 2024
How to find your superpower — your unique way of contributing in the world that most never uncover...
For many years I misunderstood myself.
self
May 07, 2024
How to find time to write
Many people want to see traction with their writing.
writing
May 06, 2024
Fifteen ways to be unstoppable in your twenties (that few talk about)
I loved my twenties. I experienced much success, but also plenty of pain, confusion and struggle.
self
May 06, 2024
Five things you must know if you want to be a productivity machine
I calculated I've created and published over 200,000 pieces of content over the last fifteen years.
creativity
productivity
May 05, 2024
If you ever struggle with 'social anxiety,' you need to read this:
I know what it's like to feel slow, ugly, and weird around other people.
mental-health
May 04, 2024
Four lies that keep you trapped in overthinking
A mini field guide you can depend on for daily happiness and performance
self
May 04, 2024
Cut out these eleven habits if you want more respect
Decades of awkwardness compelled me to learn and understand what connects us to one another and what pushes us apart.
relationships
self
May 04, 2024
How can you help the world in a way no one else can?
Too many of us aren't fulfilled because we're trying to be someone we're not.
self
work
May 03, 2024
Eight innocent mistakes that keep you stressed and anxious
I've struggled with stress and anxiety for over a decade.
mental-health
self
May 03, 2024
Eight silly things you need to stop doing if you want more freedom
We can do certain things to enslave ourselves without even realising it.
self
May 02, 2024
Ten tiny hacks to make your day go smoother
It needn't take much to turn your whole day around.
self
May 02, 2024
Signs you're on the path of greatness...
You've committed to a mission, project or cause with no Plan B. Failure is not an option.
self
May 02, 2024
Why you find sitting down to write hard, and how to make it easier
I'm in the middle of writing my eighth book and I still don't always find it easy for the words to flow.
writing
May 01, 2024
Eight writing prompts for viral articles, posts, and threads
The short-form article or thread is one of the most powerful forms of writing for bringing attention to you and your personal brand and...
writing
marketing
Apr 30, 2024
'Unreasonable optimism' separates the long-term winners from those who struggle
Over a decade ago, I decided I didn't want to work for a boss.
self
Apr 29, 2024
Eighteen sentences that will make your content more authentic than 95% of 'salesy' personal brands
For the first few years of building an online business, I wrote to impress.
writing
marketing
Apr 29, 2024
Five quick changes that make discipline 5X easier
Back in caveman days, being disciplined was so easy that discipline wasn't even a thing.
productivity
self
Apr 29, 2024
Here are nine ways to rekindle your flame, if you've been feeling flat
If you don't have periods where you're not your energised self, welcome to the experience of being human.
self
Apr 28, 2024
Sixteen ways to become a masterful writer (without writing)
There's no replacement for writing a lot if you want to become an impactful writer.
writing
Apr 28, 2024
A brief introduction to moving out of a slump and into a motivated state in less than 2 hours
I hate feeling stuck.
self
Apr 27, 2024
The one thing that helped me create every day, even when I wanted to quit
I give up when the work I make sucks. When I hate it.
creativity
Apr 27, 2024
Eleven little things you can do that make others want to listen to you
Ever get frustrated that people don't seem to pay you attention?
self
Apr 27, 2024
Eleven self-taught life lessons that gave me a major advantage
Let's dive straight in:
self
Apr 26, 2024
16 sentences that will make you a more credible online writer than 95% of writers
I know several writers who talk a good talk, but lack credibility. As such, they lose readers and struggle to grow.
writing
Apr 25, 2024
15 short paragraphs that will give you an unfair advantage as an online writer
I was told today that I'm number three out of the top writers on Medium for self-improvement.
writing
Apr 25, 2024
Four 5-minute habits that will instantly inject energy into your day
You are what you repeatedly do.
self
Apr 25, 2024
Maybe what's missing for you is the excitement you get from choosing to be (crazy) prolific
People keep talking about focusing on quality over quantity.
creativity
writing
Apr 24, 2024
Eleven behaviours that make people instantly like you more
I haven't always been liked, and I don't encourage anyone to go about trying to be liked.
relationships
Apr 24, 2024
Ten ideas to energise the way you write so you attract thousands of loyal fans
Let's take a look...
writing
Apr 23, 2024
What I do when I know I need to create, but don't feel like it...
The resistance is there.
creativity
self
Apr 23, 2024
Thirteen subtle habits that quadruple your anxiety (I'm being serious)
I suffered from anxiety (hard) and still have my moments. That's fine. It isn't about never having anxiety — it's about making peace with...
mental-health
Apr 22, 2024
How one small, bold habit change can change your life
When was the last time you did something that made you feel worse about yourself for having done it?
self
Apr 22, 2024
Give yourself a break by recognising who you really are
Sometimes I look around and think what a strange story most of us live in.
self
Apr 22, 2024
If you have any shame, take these six steps to dissolve it, so you can return to your badass self
Shame can lock us in our own prison for life.
self
Apr 21, 2024
Too many of us are just coasting. Here are seven ways to infuse some savagery into you lives
Our lives may look very different from how it did thousands of years ago. Can you imagine what your bear-skin-wearing ancestors would think...
self
Apr 21, 2024
The nine secrets of the most consistently productive creators
I've given myself no other option in my life but to create for a living.
creativity
Apr 20, 2024
15 overlooked reasons people quickly get bored with your online writing
Isn't it fun when you put time and energy into writing a post, but when you check back later, you see only three people viewed it, and you...
writing
Apr 20, 2024
Opportunities arrive when you're in motion (a mountain trekking story)
My thighs burned, and the bones in my feet pulsed pain.
travel
self
Apr 20, 2024
How I went from awkward overthinker to more creative more of the time
I'm in a cafe in Tallinn, Estonia.
mental-health
self
Apr 19, 2024
Eight secret habits of the most magnetic people
As an awkward teen, I struggled to connect with people.
relationships
self
Apr 19, 2024
Everything got easier when I stopped chasing, and started doing more with what I had
It's easy to want the rippling rush of that next novelty.
self
Apr 18, 2024
Ten seemingly innocent habits that quietly drain your energy
Ever have one of those days where the energy just isn't there?
productivity
self
Apr 17, 2024
If you worry a lot, you need to read this...
I have an extremely active imagination.
mental-health
self
Apr 17, 2024
Ten secrets to happiness of the mentally strong
Read this once for a pick-me-up.
self
Apr 17, 2024
How we win when we turn off the Internet
We all have a guilty secret.
creativity
Apr 16, 2024
Seven rules I follow as a writer to ensure my audience and business continue to grow
I've been writing content and sharing it online for over fourteen years.
writing
Apr 16, 2024
The one behaviour that separates the successful from the struggling masses...
Life has a cyclical pace that can often feel ruthless and unforgiving. I may have been knocked down many times, but my obsessive need to...
self
Apr 16, 2024
20 small things to do when you're fed up and a little depressed
Welcome to the experience of being human. I know what it's like to feel stuck and fed up.
self
Apr 15, 2024
Thirteen naughty secrets that will propel you into the top 2% of online writers
In anything you do in life, you're in either one of two modes:
writing
Apr 15, 2024
How to find a purpose that excites you, no matter your age or background
A struggle many face, particularly in the modern age, is a lack of purpose.
self
Apr 14, 2024
Why using humour is a superpower in tough times
In tough times, one of the boldest things anyone can do...
self
Apr 14, 2024
Here's how to quickly gain an unfair advantage in your work
People glamorise a hatred for hard work.
creativity
productivity
work
Apr 14, 2024
If you want more freedom, have people rely on you
Many of us want more freedom and to work less.
self
work
Apr 13, 2024
Not saying what you really mean is turning you into a soulless husk
Have you ever said something you didn't really mean, but you said it anyway?
self
Apr 13, 2024
How I went from self-taught doodler to Google illustrator in my twenties
Pete, my office manager, cackled on the phone to one of our clients.
self
Apr 12, 2024
Ditch these seven subtle habits if you're sick of not fulfilling your potential
Thinking you're not doing enough.
self
Apr 12, 2024
No, you don't need to have gone through hardship to be happy
I see people talking about how the kindest, friendliest, happiest people are often those who went through loads of misery.
self
Apr 12, 2024
It's time to drop your bullshit, and get in the arena
Many of us destroy our potential because we're cynical.
self
Apr 11, 2024
Why victim thinking slowly eats you
When I am a victim...
self
Apr 11, 2024
Should we all be doing artistic side quests to keep us energised?
In my early twenties, some of the most fun I had was creating illustrations for a design stock website, iStockphoto.
creativity
Apr 10, 2024
How to remain optimistic as life goes on
Do you know people who seem jaded as life goes on?
self
Apr 09, 2024
Five explorative writing exercises that may surprise you about yourself
E.L. Doctorow once said: "Writing is an exploration. You start from nothing, and learn as you go."
writing
Apr 08, 2024
Why social media is not the problem, and what is...
We're drowning in distractions.
creativity
productivity
social-media
Apr 08, 2024
Three simple truths that will turn your 'laziness' into bold action
The last post on laziness you'll ever need to read.
productivity
Apr 08, 2024
This one, small shift will help you relax in meetings
I worked recently with a guy who struggled to relax in work meetings.
lifestyle
self
Apr 07, 2024
Harsh truths about building a personal brand I know at 39 I wish I knew at 20
Being visible on the Internet is not always easy.
writing
marketing
Apr 07, 2024
Nine unique life lessons I wish I knew when I was younger
I've been on this planet called Earth for an eye-blink (38 years) in the grand scheme of things.
self
Apr 07, 2024
Nine sentences I always return to for self-encouragement when things get tough
I've had too many setbacks and made too many mistakes to count.
self
Apr 06, 2024
Ten simple behaviours that give you rock-solid self-respect
Many people ask me how they can be more respected.
self
Apr 06, 2024
Seven subtle changes you can make today to make more people want to read your writing
It took me many years of writing flat, lifeless words to an unreceptive audience before things finally started to click.
writing
Apr 05, 2024
Ten ways thinking and doing BIG can give you an unfair life advantage
"It's lonely at the top. Ninety-nine per cent of people in the world are convinced they can't do great things, so they aim for mediocre." -...
self
work
Apr 05, 2024
Seven major threats to your future freedom as a happy man
As a man who prizes long-term happiness and freedom over much else, I'm continually taking note of things that could potentially sabotage...
self
Apr 05, 2024
Fear diminishes when you look directly and calmly at the thing you fear
People get scared because they think fear comes from the things around us.
self
Apr 04, 2024
Ten things I learned about succeeding as an online writer after 15 years of writing
I've struggled and doubted myself a lot in these years.
writing
Apr 04, 2024
On the rewarding art of not stopping (others will drop like flies)
A curious thing happens when you've been in the game for as long as I have.
self
work
Apr 04, 2024
Ten exercises that make you more creative than 96% of people
Creativity, which is one's ability to make connections between ideas and bits of information, is becoming THE skill of the modern world.
creativity
Apr 03, 2024
Step-by-step guide to mastering your mind (with illustrations)
I am out of control.
mental-health
self
Apr 03, 2024
Six simple tips that make you immune to disappointment
I've spent a considerable amount of time analysing myself and others with a view to better managing in this chaotic world.
mental-health
self
Apr 02, 2024
Here's why NOT needing 'self-belief' will make you more confident and productive
When you consider the concept of self-belief, what does that mean to you?
self
Apr 02, 2024
Fourteen little actions that make you unstoppably unique
Most online advice is training you to be a soulless automaton.
self
Apr 02, 2024
12 things we can learn from popular books about being mentally resilient so we truly thrive
Many have struggled and been at the mercy of a seemingly chaotic reality.
self
Apr 01, 2024
How I found freedom working on my personal brand a little bit every day
I'll be honest.
freelancing
marketing
Apr 01, 2024
Four killer reasons every creator must write
Ray Bradbury once said "you must stay drunk on writing so that reality cannot destroy you."
creativity
writing
Apr 01, 2024
The art of present, thorough work you enjoy
If you are busy most of the time, making little ground;
creativity
productivity
Mar 31, 2024
Go where your heart pounds.
Seems alluring, doesn't it?
self
Mar 31, 2024
What to do when you're struggling to decide...
Ever find yourself stuck on a really tricky decision?
productivity
self
Mar 30, 2024
I wrote 400 articles before anyone cared...
What I learned about writing stuff people WANT to read:
writing
Mar 30, 2024
Nine unusual things you can do to gain a significant 'unfair' life advantage
Life isn't fair, but it isn't unfair either.
self
Mar 29, 2024
Eleven things to do if you're a 'nice guy' and want more love, confidence and respect
Might being too nice be holding you back and making you miserable?
self
Mar 29, 2024
Nine subtle additions to your writing that make you unforgettable
We live in the age of personal branding.
marketing
Mar 29, 2024
Fourteen habits that make you more focused than 98% of people
What's the deal with staying focused?
productivity
Mar 28, 2024
Ten weird things I discovered that boosted my creativity so I got more done
People say consistency is the key to creativity.
creativity
Mar 28, 2024
Understanding this one thing transformed my communication confidence
I was a confused kid.
self
Mar 28, 2024
You are not a perfectionist
You are not a perfectionist.
self
Mar 27, 2024
How to end self-consciousness
My name is Alex, and I'm a self-conscious wreck.
self
Mar 26, 2024
Why I'm dedicated to improving my speed
Pete was a guy at school who always finished his homework hours before everyone else.
creativity
productivity
Mar 25, 2024
If you're struggling to find the inspiration you need to work, read this
We can come up with various creative reasons why people don't see success the way they want.
creativity
Mar 24, 2024
If you're a writer or creator and tired of not being seen, you need to read this
You've finally finished your masterpiece. You're beaming.
creativity
Mar 24, 2024
Eleven habits that make you feel more inspired than the vast majority of people
Feeling inspired. That often elusive thing we all wish we could feel more.
self
Mar 22, 2024
The magic of making little everyday tests to create momentum
A brilliant thing I learned from one of my mentors was to 'test' rather than 'trust.'
self
Mar 22, 2024
The nine immutable laws of badass success you never heard of
What does 'success' mean to you?
self
Mar 21, 2024
Twenty sentences that will make you more online income than a two-year MBA
The opportunities for using your skills, talents and experiences to make money on the Internet has never been more profound.
marketing
Mar 21, 2024
Get more done with this powerful productivity strategy
Another day gone, and little to show for it.
productivity
self
Mar 20, 2024
Twelve quick tips to help you become more consistent than 97% of people
Ever wondered why some people are seemingly effortlessly consistent?
creativity
writing
productivity
self
Mar 20, 2024
Eight years as a psychology coach taught me this one secret to writing content people love
Many struggle to make any impact online at all.
writing
Mar 19, 2024
The nine uncommon habits of unstoppable modern warriors
We don't need to be in battle with a clan of medieval nasties to live like a warrior.
self
Mar 18, 2024
Men, these 12 subtle behaviours make you instantly more attractive
I've always considered myself a decent-looking guy (my mum certainly seems to think so).
relationships
self
Mar 18, 2024
The single most important thing that determines the success of any entrepreneur
I've built businesses and done the self-employed solo entrepreneur thing for over a decade.
self
Mar 17, 2024
Thirteen 'unreasonable' challenges you can do that will set you apart so you create insane...
This post is not for the faint of heart.
self
Mar 17, 2024
Five questions to ask yourself before writing any short, motivational :
I've written coming on to a thousand articles and newsletters over the years.
writing
Mar 16, 2024
How to make yourself lucky
Ever notice how certain people seem to attract all the luck in life, while others are like characters in a Peanuts comic?
self
Mar 16, 2024
Fourteen secrets to finding your uniqueness so you stand out in your own way
Most online advice is training you to be a soulless automaton.
self
Mar 16, 2024
Nine ways we sabotage our productivity, and how to turn that around quickly
ACTION is everything.
productivity
self
Mar 15, 2024
Nine things to know about yourself so you write more stuff people want to read
Having written my thoughts online for about fifteen years, I am convinced that our best writing reflects how well we understand ourselves.
writing
Mar 14, 2024
Writing online consistently is HARD unless you understand these eight things:
I struggled to write consistently for years.
writing
Mar 14, 2024
If you're not totally happy in your own skin, read this
We can put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be or act in a certain way.
self
Mar 14, 2024
All work is challenging, so choose the challenge that means everything to you
(Author's note: I wrote this a few years ago, but still firmly believe in the message)
creativity
self
Mar 13, 2024
The seven thinking styles of people who seem to have all the 'luck' in money-making
I've been in business for myself for over a decade.
work
startups
Mar 13, 2024
Twenty five hard things you can do to give you a life advantage
I always thought you needed to avoid stuff that felt uncomfortable to live a good life. Turns out comfort is great, but it's better as a...
self
Mar 13, 2024
Ten small simple steps to mapping out a good life
There's this thing you've been avoiding...
self
Mar 12, 2024
Read this if you're continually frustrated
Why does everything seem to get on my nerves right now?
self
Mar 11, 2024
How to enjoy life today regardless of your problems
Nothing is ever perfect.
self
Mar 10, 2024
If you struggle to find the enthusiasm to create every day, you need to read this right now
I recently made the public commitment to my YouTube subscribers that I'd be recording and sharing a daily video this year.
creativity
Mar 10, 2024
Asking these questions helps me focus on what really matters
Author's note: this is a republished piece from a few years ago when I was living in Thailand.
writing
productivity
Mar 10, 2024
Fourteen simple behaviours that trick you into realising your true badass inner confidence
I struggled with understanding confidence for years, let alone having it.
self
Mar 09, 2024
How I trained myself to be a finisher of things
self
Mar 09, 2024
Five tiny changes that make your life 10X more enjoyable
We have the power to change our perspective and thus behaviour instantly.
self
Mar 08, 2024
Fourteen ways to develop Sherlock Holmes-esque perceptiveness that will make you more effective in...
Ever wondered how cool it would be to think like Sherlock Holmes or Hercule Poirot in their powers of observation, awareness and deduction?
self
Mar 08, 2024
If you ever feel alone, read this:
Look at you, scrolling twitter, hundreds of followers, super connected.
self
Mar 08, 2024
Six powerful things to do to become a highly focused writer or creator
Focus is like taking a magnifying glass, channelling a ray of sunlight, and holding it in place long enough for an ember to start burning.
productivity
Mar 07, 2024
These nine basic habits will make you respect yourself effortlessly
Years of awkwardness and self-doubt taught me something fascinating:
self
Mar 07, 2024
Do this before you quit entirely (strip)
You've got this thing you're working on.
productivity
Mar 07, 2024
Why 'following your passion' may not be what you're looking for
I have a problem with the idea of 'passion.'
writing
self
Mar 07, 2024
Eight simple creative habits that will lead to massive results
(IF you stick with them for a good 6 months)
creativity
Mar 06, 2024
Nothing is "hard," — it's only your resistance to it that makes it so
Last week, I gave myself hell anticipating a social event I didn't want to go to.
self
Mar 06, 2024
Ten tiny behaviours that make you immune from disrespect
I grew up learning to deal with the sting of disrespect from others. I believed I was the kind of person for whom disrespect was a part of...
self
Mar 05, 2024
Why my life improved when I made space for fear...
'Eat Pray Love' wasn't what I'd usually pick up in the bookshop.
creativity
self
Mar 04, 2024
Ten tips that will quickly multiply your creative enthusiasm
This took me many years to internalise, and now I can't stop myself. I'm a creative maniac most of the time, and this doing my business a...
creativity
Mar 04, 2024
Fourteen ways to accelerate success in your life that few talk about
It's easy to get stuck in a rut. We can judge our progress to be slow and make it slower by escaping to cheap dopamine hits.
productivity
self
Mar 02, 2024
The greatest transformation I had looked like this
If you were to ask me, 'Alex, how can I ensure I stay weak, tired and scared for the rest of my life?'
self
Mar 02, 2024
Eleven things I do to help me write articles faster than 95% of people
People often ask me:
writing
Mar 02, 2024
Understanding this made me calmer as I grew older
As the son of an English diplomat, I spent some years in my early teens living on the Caribbean island of Barbados.
mental-health
self
Mar 01, 2024
12 reasons to get my latest book: The Art of Self Respect — Twenty-five subtle habits for...
I wrote a new book!
self
Mar 01, 2024
It's time we figured out our direction in life. Here's how to make it concrete
I had someone email me recently that their lack of purpose was driving them crazy.
self
Mar 01, 2024
Six simple habits of the elite few that will take you to a new level
I can't imagine anything less interesting (or healthy) than a homogenous world where everyone is granted the same rewards, regardless of...
self
Feb 29, 2024
This little addition to your creative process could multiply your results
Creativity can be effortless in some moments and a nightmare in others.
creativity
Feb 29, 2024
Twelve reasons you hate yourself and will continue to suck at life
There have been many moments in my life when I felt terrible, weak and victimised.
self
Feb 29, 2024
30 questions to ask yourself each day to join the top 5% most focused people
I know what it's like to feel lost.
productivity
self
Feb 28, 2024
Eleven good reasons to write and share a daily article
Many aspiring writers or those who've been doing it for a while might say that writing and publishing a new article every single day is too...
writing
Feb 28, 2024
Nine subtle habits of the most authentic people I know
I struggled to be what people call 'authentic' for a long time because I didn't know who I was, nor did I often trust who I was.
self
Feb 27, 2024
I've struggled, and that keeps me winning.
It's been a bit of a mess.
self
Feb 27, 2024
The eight subtle habits of the calmest people I know
I had a great childhood, but I was quick to anger and would often throw tantrums.
self
Feb 26, 2024
Eleven tiny pieces of advice about how to resonate with a loyal audience I wish I knew before I...
15 years of writing online has shown me nuances of the craft I would have only gained by grinding in the trenches.
writing
Feb 25, 2024
15 ways to re-use your content so you save time and gather more followers
People have asked me how I can be such a creative maniac and put out so many posts each week, whether on Medium, my newsletter, Twitter, or...
marketing
Feb 25, 2024
Eleven subtle habits of the introverts with the most self-respect
So you're an introvert, eh? Or maybe you know one and would like to know more about how an introvert can better navigate a world that is...
self
Feb 24, 2024
The power of being who you need to be before you need it
"A sale is made when your conviction about something is stronger than the potential buyer's."
self
Feb 24, 2024
Why the warrior's path is the only path
One of my coaching clients was struggling with feeling like he'd lost his spark.
self
Feb 24, 2024
Could this be how you truly heal?
It can hurt when stress curls its knotted fingers around our necks.
self
Feb 23, 2024
Don't get stuck in your emotions. Have a system instead...
'Creativity' may sound like it's the product of a floaty, loose and undisciplined approach.
productivity
Feb 22, 2024
If your life is complicated, ask these five simplifying questions
If your life is complicated, ask these five simplifying questions
self
Feb 22, 2024
Nine illustrated Rumi drawing quotes to inspire you to live boldly
An illustrated journey
poetry
Feb 21, 2024
The shortcut to a good life no one wants to hear
Did you notice?
self
Feb 21, 2024
17 ideas for 10-minute-a-day side hobbies
We get it. You're super busy and don't have time for stuff outside of making money.
creativity
productivity
Feb 21, 2024
Nine underused little behaviour hacks that will make you feel 10X better about yourself today
Yeah, I see you, moping about with that scowl on your face.
self
Feb 21, 2024
How to create life clarity in four quick steps [illustrated]
How to create life clarity in four quick steps [illustrated]
mental-health
self
Feb 20, 2024
Do the right thing consistently, over doing lots of things right (this changes everything)
It's tough when it feels like we're falling behind.
productivity
self
Feb 20, 2024
Eight things that make you a more attractive communicator
I struggled to have people listen to me or read my writing for many years.
writing
self
Feb 20, 2024
Read this right now if you're stressed...
Realise that worrying won't help, even if it feels like you have more control over life.
mental-health
self
Feb 19, 2024
How to start reducing social nervousness today
I've had unnecessary social anxiety for most of my life.
mental-health
self
Feb 19, 2024
Being different used to destroy me — now it gives me the greatest edge
Growing up, I hated feeling like I was different.
self
Feb 18, 2024
If anger controls your life, you need to read this:
They said it again.
self
Feb 18, 2024
The happiest introverts I know avoid these four things
Despite a recent resurgence, 'introvertedness' is still regarded as something of a deficiency, or even a taboo, particularly in the...
psychology
self
Feb 17, 2024
Seven subtle behaviours that ruin your relationships
Decades of clumsily spoiling my relationships, combined with an unhealthy obsession into human behaviour and attraction-dynamics has...
relationships
Feb 17, 2024
Twenty sentences that make you a more persuasive writer and communicator
There's a distinct line that separates people who communicate to deaf ears, and those who rile up crowds with words that drip with a kind...
writing
Feb 17, 2024
How this tiny mindset change can help you earn more money (with drawings)
Making lots of money gets a bad rap these days. People think it's greedy. Rich people are often regarded with scorn.
money
self
Feb 16, 2024
Ten subtle habits of the top 1% online writers
I've been writing online for fifteen years.
writing
Feb 16, 2024
14 short ideas that will give you more of a sense of meaning than 97% of people
A reader recently asked me to share what I knew about finding meaning in life.
self
Feb 15, 2024
Nine quick little energy hacks that will instantly make you more productive
The tiniest things can create significant changes.
productivity
Feb 15, 2024
Prove yourself wrong: live life unexpectedly (for yourself)
Just as I have repeatedly made mistakes, I've spent my life surprising myself.
self
Feb 14, 2024
How to be fearless
I've had a lot of trouble over the years feeling at ease when speaking in groups.
mental-health
self
Feb 14, 2024
You need to get excited again
I know they say it's about the journey and not the destination.
productivity
self
Feb 13, 2024
How finding a simple 'cause' might be the secret shift you need to accelerate your creativity
Sometimes, I feel stuck and disinterested in my work.
creativity
Feb 13, 2024
Knowing This Crazy Simple Thing Pointed Me to My Deepest Passion
Growing up, I had a powerful fear.
self
Feb 13, 2024
The power of white noise for being more creative
I've always been hypersensitive and can get overwhelmed by thinking.
creativity
Feb 12, 2024
Fifteen reasons you will succeed (in the next five years) when others will not
Let's not mess about and get straight into it...
productivity
self
Feb 12, 2024
The simple benefit from judging less, and observing more
When was the last time you labelled something without understanding it?
self
Feb 12, 2024
Eight reasons to fall in love with daily writing so you have an 'unfair' writer's advantage
I don't often feel like writing articles.
writing
Feb 11, 2024
Ask these questions if you want to fire up your writing
"Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer." ~William S. Burroughs
writing
Feb 11, 2024
Going Ghost: seventeen ways to keep a low profile in a society that wants to be seen
There are many advantages to keeping a low profile in this world, not to mention peace of mind, personal sovereignty, security, freedom...
self
Feb 11, 2024
Eight 'inconsequential' things you do that make you seem inexperienced at life and biz
Hey kids, listen up. It's time for Alex to enter DAD-MODE.
self
Feb 11, 2024
Six things that helped me create consistently (even when I didn't feel like it)
Lessons from creating 200k pieces of online content
creativity
Feb 10, 2024
Five simple habits that make life easier
I know what it's like to get lost in the everyday rush of life, never slowing down for a moment to take a step back and see things for what...
productivity
self
Feb 09, 2024
How to achieve anything you want by thinking small
There is a sense of building despair that comes with repeated failures.
productivity
self
Feb 09, 2024
The life-changing magic of producing shitty work
It's annoying when we want to create, but we just can't be bothered.
creativity
Feb 08, 2024
Ten quiet habits of people who attract admiration
(Even if they look like a warmed-up cat turd)
self
Feb 08, 2024
Seven mistakes online writers make that push readers away
Good writers are the most powerful people in the world.
writing
Feb 08, 2024
How I designed and created a planner book from scratch (and sold 90 in the first week)
*(Author's note — this is an article I am re-sharing from a couple of years ago).
design
Feb 07, 2024
Being ok with feeling bored is your secret superpower
It's like I'm uninspired.
self
Feb 07, 2024
Why we must not allow life to get too 'reasonable'
Hold fast to dreams.
self
Feb 06, 2024
Nine drawings of Stoic quotes that will make you feel alive
Let's dive straight into some illustrated ancient wisdom...
art
Feb 06, 2024
Your work doesn't have to be from the heart all the time (the cure to procrastination?)
Procrastinating has held me back.
creativity
Feb 05, 2024
Four things that are slowly draining your daily motivation
Years of 'not feeling like doing stuff' made me learn a lot about what it takes to be 'motivated.'
productivity
self
Feb 05, 2024
Five ways you can be immune to the AI 'threat' in the coming years
Don't wake up in five years without income because A.I. Richardson stole your job.
marketing
Feb 04, 2024
Seven things you can do before age 30 to gain an unfair advantage over your peers:
These are things I wish someone told me when I was in my early twenties.
self
Feb 03, 2024
What the 'Aikido' philosophy can teach us about living a courageous and creative life
(An illustrated introduction)
spirituality
self
Feb 03, 2024
Thirty 7-day challenges that will energise you
Can you challenge yourself?
lifestyle
self
Feb 03, 2024
Seven habits that separate high achievers from the average Joe
We tend to tie achievement to talent, intelligence, wit and intellectual prowess.
self
Feb 02, 2024
Every tiny action you take counts (and why there is no calling for you)
I always struggled with focus.
creativity
self
Feb 02, 2024
A big box of Luck. A story about inviting luck into your life
For years, I'd look at other people, a gentle current of jealousy running through me. I'd see they were doing better than me.
self
Feb 02, 2024
How to create TRACTION for your online content: my three foundational guidelines
You've been creating, making, doing and stressing, and STILL, the traction isn't there.
marketing
Feb 01, 2024
Four limiting beliefs I had to break to overcome social discomfort
I'd always seen myself as shy. I often felt like an outsider. I didn't speak up in class.
mental-health
self
Feb 01, 2024
How to replace boredom with aliveness quickly and naturally...
That feeling.
self
Feb 01, 2024
How to figure out what to do with your working life over the next five years.
Can't there just be fewer cool things in the world?
self
work
Jan 31, 2024
Nine subtle things that block you from being fully productive
We can develop habits that become concrete, but that hold us back without us realising it.
productivity
Jan 30, 2024
How to use a simple 'night-before' questions checklist to 10X your productivity
I know what it's like to go through the day disorganised without knowing what I'm doing.
productivity
Jan 30, 2024
Nine tips to ensure you don't fall into mental struggle or illness
I know what it's like to have phases where I feel completely out of control, miserable and at a loss.
mental-health
Jan 30, 2024
Eight tips to help you reach your goals five times fast
If you seem to waste time each day, even if you're ambitious and want to get lots done, you're not alone.
productivity
Jan 29, 2024
Why having the courage to 'Enter the Void' leads to our best creative work
Here it is again. That wave of discomfort.
creativity
self
Jan 29, 2024
The cure for an anxious, sucky life, in less than 570 words
You feel miserable. Life is hard. Everyone sucks.
mental-health
self
Jan 29, 2024
This is how to live a more 'centred' life
Being 'centred.'
self
Jan 28, 2024
Three unconventional ideas that will propel you to financial success
There's been much I've learned in my pursuit of monetary 'success.'
money
Jan 28, 2024
This is the only obsession worth having (and it isn't to be liked)
We get frustrated because we aren't progressing as we had planned.
self
Jan 28, 2024
If you're worried about starting something new...
I know how hard it is.
self
Jan 27, 2024
The five habits of people who don't seem to give an F about what others think.
Isn't it the ultimate dream to be unaffected by other people's thoughts, opinions and judgements?
self
Jan 27, 2024
Fifteen quick questions that make you laser-focused so your productivity quadruple
Most of us have very little sense of our priorities.
productivity
Jan 26, 2024
Nine life hacks that will instantly turn your frustration into excitement
There's no better teacher than bouncing around like a wet poodle in the washing machine of life for several decades.
self
Jan 26, 2024
Ten ideas for lists you can write to improve your life this year
I love writing lists.
productivity
self
Jan 25, 2024
Seven simple things the most chill people do every day
Are there things that certain do more regularly than others that gives them a skip in their step?
self
Jan 25, 2024
If you have a fear of rejection, read this
Imagine this...
self
Jan 24, 2024
Why not being a slob will transform your self-respect
"Looking good isn't self-importance; it's self-respect." — Charles Hix
self
Jan 24, 2024
What to think when things seem bleak
Life will never get easy, but we can make it easier by how we think.
self
Jan 24, 2024
This small change will help you get 10x better at reaching your goals
If I had a magic ingredient that allowed you to reach all your goals, would you read on?
productivity
self
Jan 24, 2024
Read this to quickly decrease your fears around making money
If you asked every adult on earth to list their biggest challenges, I bet that one of the most common complaints — if not the most common...
money
self
Jan 23, 2024
How writing every day made me lucky
(Here's why showing up changed my life)
writing
Jan 23, 2024
Fourteen fun alternatives to watching crap on Netflix
Woke shite on Netflix is out. Learning, reading and creating dope shit that makes you money is in.
creativity
Jan 22, 2024
Eight outrageous life hacks that make you more confident than 95.7% of people.
1. Be obsessed with doing things.
self
Jan 22, 2024
How to be in the top 2% in the modern world
I've never been comfortable in a crowd.
self
Jan 22, 2024
Eight things you must do if you continually struggle with low self-esteem
There's much I've learned over the last twenty years, going from a deeply insecure teen to a confident man who loves life (for the most...
self
Jan 20, 2024
I hate seeing writers not making money. So here are eight ways to make more as a writer:
Deciding to be a writer needn't be synonymous with living in a decrepit bedsit surrounded by ashtrays and empty beer bottles.
writing
Jan 20, 2024
Four ways we can make it way easier to get started with the things that matter
I've made a lot happen over the years, but you don't see all the projects and plans that never got going.
self
Jan 20, 2024
Most of our problems disappear by being consistent
A man built his cabin in a meadow in Sweden using only hand tools and wood from the nearby forest.
creativity
self
Jan 19, 2024
If you're in a slump, you need to read this
You're ashamed of that thing you did.
mental-health
self
Jan 19, 2024
Nine ways to bring more danger into your life so you don't lose your spark
Complacency breeds danger.
self
Jan 19, 2024
How to be free of self-limitation fast so you can quadruple your success
"If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration." ― Nikola Tesla
self
Jan 19, 2024
Four subtle 'super habits' of mentally calm people
One of the big lessons I learned after years and years of anxiety and personal insecurities was the power of habits.
mental-health
self
Jan 18, 2024
What I Tell Myself When Life is Beating Me Down...
I'll be honest with you. I'm in my thirties and still feel like a beginner at life.
mental-health
self
Jan 18, 2024
Don't confuse things that make you uncomfortable with things you should avoid
There's this interesting thing people do — often as they get older.
self
Jan 18, 2024
You Will Be Unstoppable When You Allow Challenges to Energise You
self
Jan 17, 2024
Seven fast and simple ways being a bit of a dick will change your life
Has anyone ever called you a dick?
self
Jan 17, 2024
If you can't be bothered, get a little closer...
How to easily return to projects that brought you lots of resistance.
productivity
self
Jan 16, 2024
Four things to know if you want to use social media without being destroyed by it
Social media can complement your life and work, or it can destroy you.
self
social-media
Jan 16, 2024
How to stop taking things personally so you experience less stress in life
"If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." — Epictetus
self
Jan 15, 2024
Seven tiny steps that will reduce your anxiety by over 90% in 24 hours
I've been to hell and back with anxiety.
mental-health
Jan 15, 2024
14 subtle habits for cultivating deep self-respect
Many people seem to suffer when they don't get the respect they feel they deserve.
self
Jan 15, 2024
Why your happiness doesn't rely on other people
Do you know what our most significant source of ongoing hardship is?
self
Jan 14, 2024
Why I spend three minutes every morning eating frogs (major productivity hack)
Every morning I sit down and plan the day.
productivity
Jan 14, 2024
How I Learned that We Are Already Confident by Default
Knowing we are pure confidence, we needn't be swayed by our negative thoughts about who we are.
self
Jan 14, 2024
Three mind exploration exercises more vivid than meditation
Whether you think it's all mumbo woo-woo or not, many people, including myself, have seen their lives change by meditating.
mindfulness
self
Jan 13, 2024
How to turn an ordinary life into a lucky life
You are hurting.
mental-health
self
Jan 13, 2024
You create everything.
We create everything, 'good' and 'bad.'
creativity
Jan 12, 2024
Nurture the art of non-reactivity to rediscover powerful self-confidence
"To offer no resistance to life is to be in a state of grace, ease, and lightness. This state is then no longer dependent upon things being...
self
Jan 12, 2024
This often ignored idea will multiply your will to succeed
Of all the lofty goals people set for themselves year after year, how many of them do you think they reach?
productivity
self
Jan 11, 2024
What if you focused on giving instead of setting goals?
Maybe many of us have been misdirected over setting goals.
productivity
self
Jan 11, 2024
Eleven short tips every introvert needs to keep close (encouraging)
My experience growing up is shared by many introverts:
mental-health
self
Jan 11, 2024
How to make it easier to do the things you don't feel like doing
You don't want to start.
self
Jan 10, 2024
Follow your fascinations, and turn them into obsessions so you go further than most
Life is too short to spend time away from the things that do not fascinate us.
creativity
self
Jan 10, 2024
How to let go of your past, so you can enjoy life
Looking back over my past, I can see most of my problems stemmed from my inability to disconnect.
self
Jan 10, 2024
Consistency is relentless and nightmarish, but you can adapt so you enjoy it and get what you want...
Consistency has shown itself to be one of the most powerful components of success.
self
Jan 09, 2024
Know these seven things if you're tired of feeling ashamed about your life choices
Decades on this jolly little planet have shown me that I'm just not very conventional.
self
Jan 09, 2024
Ten little actions that make you more confident than 95% of people
By making small and simple changes, we can impact our self-perception and energise ourselves quickly.
self
Jan 09, 2024
How to manage a painful loss
The feeling of no longer having what you once had can range from frustration to a deep sense of grief.
mental-health
self
Jan 08, 2024
Nine strange life hacks that actually work
Remember when you were labelled weird and dumb by the other kids at school?
self
Jan 08, 2024
17 unconventional ideas to make your 2024 freaking awesome
self
Jan 07, 2024
Eight money-creation shortcuts that actually work
They say there are no shortcuts in life.
money
Jan 07, 2024
12 subtle tricks to ensure you have more fun in the work week as a solopreneur
Most of us are returning to a wall of work and self-expectations this week.
productivity
self
work
Jan 06, 2024
Nine reasons we won't take ACTION (and how to make it EFFORTLESS)
Medium has spoken: ACTION is everything.
self
Jan 06, 2024
Eight simple daily habits that make you feel 8X better about yourself
I know what it's like to feel uninspired and just plain icky.
self
Jan 05, 2024
How to give less of a f*ck about what others think
I've spent my whole life worrying too much about what others think.
self
Jan 05, 2024
Five things life taught me that will get you in serious trouble
38 years on the planet introduced me to some beautiful highs and staggering lows.
self
Jan 04, 2024
Fifteen tiny ideas that quickly drain stress from your life
Rates of stress are seemingly going up for large numbers of people at an alarming rate.
self
Jan 04, 2024
Ten subtle behaviours that make people respect you less
Years of awkwardness compelled me to want to learn about what attracts one another.
self
Jan 03, 2024
People-pleasing will hurt you with tiny cuts. Do this instead...
It took me most of my 36 years to realise I was operating on outdated software.
self
Jan 03, 2024
Why I must fill my life with scary things
What the hell am I doing?
self
Jan 03, 2024
This habit helped me produce more original content while keeping me from burning out
Many creative people struggle because they don't innovate and don't know how to keep things fresh.
creativity
Jan 02, 2024
I'm tired of mediocre. Join me in going all the way (are you in?)
I'm tired of mediocre.
self
Jan 02, 2024
When you're not feeling the creative spark...
There are those days when the fire inside only simmers.
creativity
Jan 01, 2024
When I feel overwhelmed I do these three things
You're overwhelmed.
productivity
Jan 01, 2024
Ten small behaviour shifts that will raise your mood by 93% (I'm not kidding)
Let's dive straight in...
self
Jan 01, 2024
Eight reasons you'll be glad you started and grew your newsletter in the next ten years
Over fourteen years ago, a bright orange book caught my eye in a London Waterstones bookshop.
marketing
Dec 31, 2023
What I learned building an illustration design business from scratch in my twenties
(*Author's note — I wrote this a few years ago, I'm now focused on writing and coaching)
design
Dec 31, 2023
Do these six things in order when you feel rejected
(6 steps to quickly feeling good about things again)
self
Dec 31, 2023
Seven simple mistakes that ensure your relationship will fail
Let's jump straight in...
relationships
Dec 30, 2023
Cut out these seven habits if you're sick of feeling unsuccessful
I know the feeling. We can often be our harshest critics.
self
Dec 29, 2023
Seven unconventional forms of 'therapy' that will make you feel 10x more alive
We live in a soft world where the slightest sign of discomfort can be regarded with concern and even panic.
mental-health
self
Dec 29, 2023
This is why other people make me suffer
My life has featured a lot of unnecessary suffering.
self
Dec 29, 2023
10 things that are easy to set up that make life 10X better
I've made many mistakes and 'wasted' large swathes of time experimenting.
productivity
self
Dec 28, 2023
How to end self-consciousness
My name is Alex, and I'm a self-conscious wreck.
self
Dec 28, 2023
Fourteen self-reflection questions to simplify your next 30 days (prepare to be surprised)
Do you overcomplicate things?
self
Dec 27, 2023
If you get stressed at work, you need to read this
I speak to many guys who tell me they experience a lot of stress at work.
work
Dec 27, 2023
13 things you can do in the next hour to turn an OK day into an outstanding day
Just because your day started poorly, doesn't mean you can't do something simple to turn the day around.
productivity
self
Dec 26, 2023
How to be more creatively productive without losing your soul
Getting your creative work noticed, let alone gaining fans and followers can seem like a lost cause.
creativity
Dec 25, 2023
How to find the easy way in a frustrating world
I was speaking to a client friend whose mother recently received a new mac laptop upgrade.
self
Dec 24, 2023
Absorbing these seven tips in three minutes will make you more confident than most people (this...
Let's dive straight in shall we...
self
Dec 21, 2023
The eight basic habits of the luckiest people
The foundational habits that will attract more success into your life
self
Dec 21, 2023
Five quick tips to greatly reduce the amount of drama you get from others
When people talk about acquiring freedom in their lives, they often discuss material and logistical privileges like having enough money...
self
Dec 20, 2023
These tough life lessons took me fourteen years to learn, but you can absorb them in two mins...
This is an exercise in distilling all my big life lessons, those I still refer to today to help me. Let me show you what I've learned:
self
Dec 20, 2023
The only thing stopping you is your thoughts
I was talking to someone recently about the stress they were having.
self
Dec 19, 2023
The six traits of people who are unapologetically themselves
There is a constant force that slowly and subtly works against your individuality.
self
Dec 19, 2023
The problem with society's obsession with more
And why more can happen when you leave things alone.
self
Dec 19, 2023
15 subtle ideas that will make you happier than 96% of people
If the header of this article got you annoyed, you might benefit from reading on.
self
Dec 18, 2023
Change your story, change your life. Here's how...
Do you want the absolute best for yourself?
mental-health
self
Dec 18, 2023
17 sentences that will make you a more impactful online writer than 97% of writers
After fifteen years of writing consistently online, I've learned there is no end point you reach where all your writing woes suddenly...
writing
Dec 17, 2023
Ten subtle signs you are becoming more mentally resilient
If I had to pinpoint a single skill that will serve you more than any other in the coming years, it's resilience.
mental-health
self
Dec 17, 2023
Why you must have a 'make the first move' mindset
I've spent most of my life shy and reserved around others.
self
Dec 17, 2023
How to get past the fact that most people are annoying as shit
There is something in most people that annoys me.
self
Dec 16, 2023
Nine Things I Would Tell My 17 Year-Old Self (at 30)
Author's note — I wrote this at age 30 — I'm 39 now (wow!), but I decided to re-share this because it still holds true.
self
Dec 16, 2023
How to Live with Purpose if You Don't Have a Clue
How I stay focused every day
self
Dec 15, 2023
Understanding this keeps you fearless around other people
Self-esteem is an illusion.
self
Dec 15, 2023
Nine illustrated Confucius quotes that will change your life
Timeless wisdom to refresh and entertain:
self
Dec 14, 2023
Why owning your losses will 10X your creativity
One of the most common ways people hold themselves back creatively is by trying their best to look as impressive as possible.
creativity
Dec 14, 2023
Nine subtle behaviours that make you a top 1% communicator
I was not a good communicator for most of my life.
self
work
Dec 14, 2023
The questions I ask myself to turbo-charge my productivity
I know what it's like to be appallingly scattered and distracted.
productivity
Dec 13, 2023
When you want to do everything, do this
A big struggle of mine has always been the need to do many different things.
productivity
Dec 13, 2023
14 sentences that will help you worry less than 99% of people
Do you think you could ever stop worrying?
mental-health
self
Dec 12, 2023
Why taking things personally stops you enjoying your best life (and how to gain self-respect)
"If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." — Epictetus
self
Dec 12, 2023
When you're overwhelmed...
(A short read)
poetry
Dec 12, 2023
40 creative ways to get people to respond to you
I hate having to stay in touch with people.
marketing
Dec 12, 2023
Why writing fewer words will make your readers hungry for more
When I look at some of my earlier writing, I notice how my paragraphs were often long-winded.
writing
Dec 11, 2023
Four mindset fundamentals I use to feel energised and happy
No matter who you are, or what your situation is, let's commit to this year being better than ever.
self
Dec 11, 2023
How to actually do what you love and why that matters
Making art for a living is hard.
creativity
self
work
Dec 11, 2023
If you often feel bad about other people's success, you need to do these three things today
You don't need to pretend you don't get frustrated, depressed or even enraged when seeing someone else succeed.
self
Dec 10, 2023
Understanding how I am connected makes everything better
It is very human to believe it's them and us
self
Dec 10, 2023
A small change massively improved the engagement with my writing...
If you ask the best writers what one thing improved their writing the most, many would tell you to simply write more.
writing
Dec 09, 2023
Seven ways to start next year with an advantage 99% of people won't have
Ready for the end of the year? None of us really are, but let's see how we can make the most of it...
productivity
self
Dec 09, 2023
Here's how to develop psychological immunity to the fear of rejection from others
"Only you can take inner freedom away from yourself, or give it to yourself. Nobody else can." — Michael A. Singer
self
Dec 08, 2023
Your most reliable teacher is making a mistake
Failing feels icky.
self
Dec 08, 2023
17 secrets that give you an unfair edge over 98% of other creators
(This is no joke)
creativity
self
Dec 07, 2023
Ten big money remote career alternatives to having a boss (that don't take years to build):
You don't need a 'job' in the old-fashioned sense anymore.
freelancing
Dec 07, 2023
Six curious little things you need to know if you want to master the art of clear thinking
Is clear thinking even attainable?
productivity
self
Dec 07, 2023
If you want more engagement as a creator or artist, read this
It is frustrating when few seem to care about our work.
creativity
Dec 07, 2023
The subtle art of listening (and why you need this in your life)
Take a moment when you can to observe people in discussion.
relationships
self
Dec 06, 2023
How seeing in four dimensions is the remedy to escapism
As I write this, I am seeing four dimensions. It's pretty crazy.
self
Dec 06, 2023
The nine habits of the most determined people
(Read this if you want to stay energised over the long term)
self
Dec 06, 2023
How to be unbelievably successful (in 392 words)
What is 'success' anyway?
self
Dec 05, 2023
How to transform awkward ambiguity into guidance that will put you ahead of the rest
Starting anything is rarely easy.
self
work
Dec 05, 2023
Seven reasons I'm betting on Substack for my writing business
I've been slowly falling in love with Substack.
marketing
Dec 05, 2023
You can't outwork someone who is enjoying themselves
With all the various hacks, tricks, formulas and clever solutions people come up with to make us more productive...
creativity
productivity
Dec 04, 2023
Ten ways I transformed my writing from boring to fresh
How I transformed my writing and blew up my articles.
writing
Dec 04, 2023
Losing our desire for things that do not matter
Think for a moment right now about all the things in your life you wished were different.
self
Dec 04, 2023
The subtle difference between being miserable, and being alive (short)
When I am miserable...
self
Dec 03, 2023
Society has ignored this one piece of ancient wisdom, but it could obliterate most mental health...
People ask:
mental-health
self
Dec 03, 2023
Why you do NOT need to know your purpose
Many times I have worried that I'm not doing work that answers a 'purpose.'
self
Dec 02, 2023
Ten things I did to become calmer as I got older
(Without taking pills or selling my soul to the devil)
mental-health
self
Dec 02, 2023
On being myself... (a short piece)
Sometimes, I wish I were a tortoise.
poetry
Dec 01, 2023
Twelve hacks I use to help me through things that scare the crap out of me
There are a lot of things that still scare me.
lifestyle
self
Dec 01, 2023
Don't DO what you love; BE what you love
(Author's note: written several months ago)
creativity
self
Dec 01, 2023
The five habits of successful and outstanding rebels
Rebels go against the grain.
self
Nov 30, 2023
Eight uncommon daily rituals that will set you apart from 98% of people
Some ancient dude once said, 'we are what we repeatedly do.'
self
Nov 30, 2023
If you've been struggling, now is the time
If you've been struggling, now is the time.
self
work
Nov 30, 2023
The unusual way to overcome money fears (so that making money becomes easier)
If you asked every adult on earth to list their biggest challenges, I bet that one of the most common complaints — if not the most common...
money
self
Nov 29, 2023
Four steps to moving past disappointment:
Ever been disappointed?
self
Nov 29, 2023
How to succeed with this small change in focus
Growing any kind of business can be bloody hard. You will make mistakes, doubt yourself and experience setbacks.
productivity
Nov 28, 2023
Eleven subtle signs other people like you
Spending a large portion of my life in my head and nervous around people, it's taken me a long time to understand others.
relationships
Nov 28, 2023
Five uncommon tips that help you quickly stop doubting yourself
Here are five ideas I always return to whenever I experience the human sense of doubt.
self
Nov 27, 2023
Seven behaviours that instantly increase your intelligence
Did you ever say something regretfully dumb when angry?
psychology
self
Nov 27, 2023
Why you need to stop doing what makes you happy
Just do what makes you happy.
self
Nov 26, 2023
How to create a major unfair advantage for yourself
It's tough to make an impact with your creations these days. It always was, but these days especially.
creativity
productivity
self
Nov 26, 2023
Why being 'outcome dependent' could be the one thing blocking you from what you want
I once lived in Tokyo for a few months, and I'd arranged to meet an English-speaking local via the Couchsurfing community online. Let's...
self
Nov 25, 2023
Seven things the best online writers do that don't rely on brains
Ask an inexperienced writer about the game of writing online, and many will describe it as an intellectual pursuit.
writing
Nov 25, 2023
Ten ways living minimally creates a significant unfair advantage for you
Many of us are overwhelmed with all the stuff.
productivity
self
Nov 25, 2023
15 filthy little tricks the most creative people don't want you to know about prolific productivity
Ever wondered how some people seem to almost effortlessly crank out an ungodly amount of creative work, and others, well...they struggle to...
creativity
Nov 24, 2023
21 sentences that will make you more resilient than 97% of people
Resilience is being able to get back up quickly after a setback.
self
Nov 24, 2023
Ten life shortcuts I know that actually work
I'm often the first to yell from the rooftops about how there are no shortcuts in life or work.
self
Nov 24, 2023
The power of presence and persuasion I learned from a toy elephant seller in Bangkok
Author's note: I wrote this a few years ago.
self
Nov 24, 2023
Embracing the unknown: How accepting uncertainty puts you back in control
Humans have had an uncomfortable relationship with uncertainty since we were knocking stones together to create sparks.
self
Nov 23, 2023
Seven ways to be insanely productive that no one is talking about
Sick of the same old productivity advice?
productivity
Nov 23, 2023
Five little things you do that keep you broke as a mouse
Hey there, little squeaker!
money
Nov 22, 2023
Do these eight things daily to quickly disable self-sabotage
Do you do things that get in the way of your goals and dreams?
self
Nov 22, 2023
Eight actionable tips you can use today that make it impossible to procrastinate
As a creator who relies on daily consistency to make a living, I'm always looking for ways to make the creative process more streamlined.
productivity
Nov 22, 2023
On why being a bit ridiculous is your direct route to being on your purpose
There's a silent energy killer that most of us are unaware of.
self
Nov 21, 2023
Seven cheeky little hacks the most productive people don't want you to know
You needn't turn your whole life around to make a huge impact.
productivity
Nov 21, 2023
How to create an unfair advantage for yourself (keep this secret)
It's tough to make an impact with your creations these days. It always was, but these days especially.
creativity
productivity
Nov 21, 2023
How to dissolve a bad mood quickly
Here it is again.
mental-health
self
Nov 20, 2023
What would happen if you did these things every day for thirty days?
Reached out to someone to ask for help.
productivity
self
Nov 19, 2023
How to be massively successful, in only 392 words
What is 'success' anyway?
self
Nov 19, 2023
The thirteen traits of the unstoppable modern man
39 years on this planet as a man has been one hell of a ride.
equality
Nov 19, 2023
Twelve questions to ask yourself to become an inconceivably dope badass
Here's an underrated tool for a good life: questions.
self
Nov 18, 2023
Is this the most significant building block for your success?
Let's make a deal.
productivity
Nov 18, 2023
Three simple things you can do to climb out of the slump you're in
Luther, exhausted, had become separated from his team on a Bolivian jungle trek.
self
Nov 18, 2023
The seven foundational daily habits of highly sensitive people
Read this if you often get overwhelmed by the stimulations of the world.
lifestyle
self
Nov 17, 2023
You don't need to be 'organised' to be the best at what you do
I'm one of the least organised people you'll meet*.
productivity
self
Nov 17, 2023
Nine common writing mistakes that repel your ideal readers
Our words can't possibly please everyone.
writing
Nov 16, 2023
Seven dietary shifts that will dramatically reduce your anxiety
I'd struggled with anxiety for a large chunk of my life, but it wasn't until I made specific dietary changes that I saw a notable deduction...
mental-health
Nov 16, 2023
Twenty ideas from books that energised me the most as a writer and entrepreneur
As I progress on my adventure as a solo entrepreneur with a love for learning, I like to keep note of some of the ideas from great authors...
productivity
Nov 16, 2023
Why your main mission must be shamelessly selfish...
The idea that your purpose should be to help others is flawed.
self
Nov 15, 2023
Twenty sentences that will give you more emotional control than 95% of people
I always used to think emotional control meant gritting teeth and trying to bottle in my rage.
mental-health
self
Nov 15, 2023
Twelve unique questions to ask yourself for a powerful journaling session that will change your...
Journaling is great for breathing life into your ideas.
productivity
self
Nov 15, 2023
How I continue to write and improve without going nuts
People say I'm a great writer.
writing
Nov 14, 2023
Eight tiny behaviour shifts that give you a mental advantage
Joan of Arc once said that 'all battles are first won and lost in the mind.'
self
Nov 14, 2023
Change this one thing in your mind, and your whole experience changes
How might your life be if you truly loved every aspect of you?
self
Nov 14, 2023
Twenty sentences that will make you more charismatic than 97% of people
Charisma isn't something only granted to the fortunate few at birth. Growing up, I struggled with shyness; anyone would have labelled me...
self
Nov 14, 2023
Nine things you gotta stop doing if you want more focus.
What even is 'focus?'
productivity
Nov 13, 2023
Nine super fun and simple ideas that ensure you don't become a massive puss puss
Let's not beat around the bush:
self
Nov 13, 2023
Five myths about having a successful one-to-one coaching business (and why you want to become a...
One of the best discoveries of my career was professional coaching.
self
work
Nov 13, 2023
Eight things you can do to 10x the trust others have in you
Expand your network, gain influence, and make more friends.
relationships
self
Nov 13, 2023
Eleven unique tips that give you a mental advantage over 95% of people
Psst. Life isn't fair.
self
Nov 13, 2023
Four ways to stay emotionally resilient so you don't get broken by social media
Working on my brand and online business has brought conflict.
marketing
social-media
Nov 12, 2023
Nineteen ways to infuse FUN into your writing process (and have fun consistently)
A guy I follow on X asked his followers:
writing
Nov 12, 2023
If you think you're lazy, read this...
Your mama says you're lazy.
productivity
self
Nov 12, 2023
Eleven powerful ways to motivate yourself right now
Ah, feeling motivated. It seems to come and it go. It ebbs and flows.
productivity
self
Nov 11, 2023
Being ok with being disliked is the number one life skill
We all want to be liked.
self
Nov 11, 2023
If you're not sure about your life path, read this:
I've worked for myself for the last fourteen years since my early twenties.
self
Nov 11, 2023
Understanding these two choices, makes life better
I've been criticised all my life.
self
Nov 11, 2023
Don't do these 9 nine things if you want your focus back
Let's not lose focus, and jump straight into this shall we...
productivity
Nov 10, 2023
People miss this one thing and then wonder why they don't make progress as an online brand
How understanding the 'Transformation' will help you stand out.
marketing
Nov 10, 2023
Eight signs you are going to make it in the next fifteen years:
The next few years won't be easy for most.
self
Nov 10, 2023
Ten reasons some people blow up online and attract lifelong fans, and others splutter and quit
Developing a personal brand that draws people in is becoming more critical every day.
marketing
Nov 08, 2023
Twenty ways to lower anxiety by at least 20%:
Anxiety is a natural part of being human.
mental-health
Nov 08, 2023
Eight subtle behaviour changes that instantly boost your social self-esteem
Years of social anxiety forced me to learn everything about confidence around other people.
self
Nov 08, 2023
How to write articles fast (that people want to read)
"Work harder," they say.
writing
Nov 07, 2023
Three secrets about motivation shared by the most energised people
What years of STUCKNESS showed me about living a motivated life.
productivity
self
Nov 07, 2023
Nine little-known hacks to boost your personal brand's visibility and reach
Every day people are growing to realise that this icky-sounding personal brand thing may be a good idea after all.
marketing
Nov 07, 2023
This is the main reason I've learned women lose respect for men
One of the most insidious forms of stress for men is women issues.
relationships
Nov 07, 2023
Fourteen simple behaviours that make people instantly respect you more
Are there things we can do that influence other people's perceptions of us?
self
Nov 06, 2023
Eleven fascinating prompts to heighten your awareness and sharpen your creativity
These prompts will raise your consciousness by bringing attention to awareness.
self
Nov 06, 2023
Eight unconventional tips for making money teaching your skills without self-sabotage
—
work
startups
Nov 05, 2023
Thirteen fiction novels that will change your life (illustrated)
A while back I asked my followers which fiction book made the most profound and inspiring impact on their lives.
books
Nov 05, 2023
Six uplifting little secrets about confidence I learned from a brooding dragon in a mountain cave
Not long ago, I found myself venturing far from home.
self
Nov 04, 2023
You'd be a fool not to read this in your twenties
I was in my twenties fairly recently, and I made a whole host of mistakes, most of which I don't regret.
self
Nov 04, 2023
The nine daily habits of the most elite modern men
Alex Mathers
self
Nov 04, 2023
The eight habits of the most chill people I know
I have to admit, I've spent a pretty sizeable chunk of my life worrying about stuff I could have left alone.
self
Nov 04, 2023
Ten subtle behaviours that make men instantly more masculine
Yeah, I see you cringing at the word: 'masculinity...'
feminism
equality
Nov 03, 2023
Two ways I give less of a fu*k (while still caring for people)
🔆
humor
comics
Nov 03, 2023
Seven secrets the calmest people know about anxiety
I know what it feels like to have anxiety get in the way of enjoying life.
mental-health
self
Nov 02, 2023
Stop waiting for others to give you the green light.
You need to act on what you know you need to do.
self
Nov 01, 2023
Does being mindful mean sacrificing our productivity and momentum?
What happens when we choose the 'Zen' approach to work and life?
productivity
self
Oct 31, 2023
People won't want to take action on what you say if you miss these three things
What's the number one skill of any successful (and lucrative) personal brand?
marketing
Oct 31, 2023
It all gets better when you stop working on yourself and start working on your craft
How is it that I've been on this Earth so long, and still I can't shake this off?
self
Oct 30, 2023
Six thinking styles that transform you into a relaxed badass
The thinking styles or mantras that changed my life for the better
self
Oct 29, 2023
Fifteen unusual little habits that will set you apart from 97% of people
While most people eye up the 'overnight' success and wonder why they never see it, the wise among us are focusing on those little habits.
productivity
self
Oct 29, 2023
Ten Little Behaviours that Attract People to You
I studied ways to be less awkward, and learned some interesting things that improve my relationships
relationships
self
Oct 29, 2023
The twelve habits of the most productive people I know
Being productive in an increasingly distracted world is a prized asset.
productivity
Oct 29, 2023
How to change your relationship with the past to be happier.
I've spent a long time looking back at my school years with deep regret.
self
Oct 28, 2023
Twelve simple daily tasks that will energise and simplify your life dramatically
Life is rarely won in an overnight show of lights and splendour.
productivity
self
Oct 27, 2023
The twelve habits of mentally strong people
What 25 years of mental struggle taught me about using the mind well.
mental-health
self
Oct 27, 2023
Four things that will turn your 'laziness' into momentum
Laziness isn't a personality trait.
productivity
Oct 26, 2023
How to reduce anxiety in two simple steps
You're feeling anxious.
mental-health
self
Oct 26, 2023
16 life habits that put you in the top 5% of most courageous people
(These will bring triple the success into your life.)
self
Oct 26, 2023
Ten subtle ways to have your followers fall in love with your brand
Very few of us will be exempt from the necessity to build a personal brand in the coming years.
marketing
Oct 25, 2023
Ten lesser-known habits that will make you happier than 98% of people
I get it, 'happiness' isn't really a thing.
self
Oct 25, 2023
What Zinsser's iconic 'On Writing Well' teaches us about being outstanding online writers
I wasn't always a decent writer.
writing
Oct 24, 2023
How I use a 5-minute meditation to boost my creativity
I want to create something, but I feel stuck and frustrated.
creativity
self
Oct 23, 2023
14 habits that make you more laid back than 97% of people
Ever wondered why some people seem unfazed, and others are wound up tighter than a tin toy truck?
self
Oct 19, 2023
Why having any expectations of others makes you miserable
And what to do instead
self
Oct 18, 2023
Eight ways to harness your inner rebel so you live a happy life true to yourself
Originally appeared on Untethered Mind Substack newsletter.
self
Oct 17, 2023
Twenty mistakes you need to avoid in your twenties (I'm 39)
Man, I wish I had a list like this in my 20s.
self
Oct 15, 2023
How do you specialise in a world that demands multiple skills?
People come to me, and they say, 'Yo, Alex, what should I specialise in?'
work
Sep 25, 2023
Ten tips for growing fast on X if you're a beginner
I grew my Twitter account rapidly from scratch to over 100,000 followers in 2022 and continue to add about 50–100 followers per day.
marketing
social-media
Sep 24, 2023
Doing these nine hard things makes running a successful online business easy
There are a couple of guarantees when you decide to build your own business.
startups
Sep 21, 2023
This is what I ask myself when I'm about to quit...
If someone were to ask me what words I'd use to describe working for myself, many would come to mind...
freelancing
work
Sep 07, 2023
You're not perfect, but you don't have to be when you know this
Many of us say we're 'perfectionists.'
creativity
self
Sep 05, 2023
A simple and refreshing way to think about money shared by the wealthiest people
You believe that money will make you happy.
money
self
Sep 02, 2023
Commenting on the right accounts is the secret to accelerating your brand
(but not if your ideas suck)
marketing
Aug 30, 2023
I hate it when things don't go to plan
I hate it when things don't go to plan. I said a thing without thinking it through, and now I regret it. I didn't get the client I wanted...
self
Aug 29, 2023
The most impactful creators produce junk daily
Someone who couldn't move emailed me today.
creativity
self
Aug 29, 2023
How an introvert like me found freedom through talking to (some) p
'Congratulations. You made a sale:
work
startups
Aug 15, 2023
The science of online publishing shows us the way, but the art keeps us in it
I posted my first blog post 15 years ago this month.
writing
Aug 06, 2023
Subtle signs you might be turning into a giga warrior legend with huge nuts
Life's too short to float around like a sad, wimpy little leaf in the wind.
self
Jul 26, 2023
Avoid these 7 mistakes if you want to grow your freelance business
Why would you listen to me about this?
freelancing
Jul 19, 2023
This productivity strategy will set you apart over the coming years
This productivity strategy will set you apart over the coming years
productivity
Jul 09, 2023
Do you need to build a pyramid scheme to make money online?
I used to think the only way to have a successful business was to be a bit scammy.
marketing
Jun 30, 2023
7 illustrations that will help you develop your emotional intelligence
I've been playing around with AI art-creation app: MidJourney. It's very addictive as you can imagine.
design
Jun 09, 2023
For an easier life, you need to intentionally introduce challenge (it can be fun!)
Comfort can ensnare us.
self
Jun 06, 2023
How I found freedom by working on my personal brand a little bit every day
I'll be honest.
freelancing
marketing
Jun 03, 2023
Why we must 'lighten up' now more than ever (it's easier than you think)
It's all so terrible.
self
May 31, 2023
Nine life 'mistakes' that turned out to be the best things that happened
I've lost a lot of time ruminating about the past.
self
May 26, 2023
How I learned to continually nurture the most underrated aspect of writing and creating with power
The Internet is jam-packed with articles, videos and content about how to make great content that resonates.
writing
May 23, 2023
14 things to avoid if you want people to respond to your messages
I.e. how to be a master online messaging networker
marketing
social-media
May 12, 2023
11 tips for building a profitable sololancing business 5X fast
I built a global design business from scratch without formal training in my early twenties.
freelancing
Apr 09, 2023
If you're worried about how to make a living from your skills and talents...
*(Author's note — originally published a few years ago)
creativity
marketing
business
work
Apr 09, 2023
'The freezer' -why creators fall in it, and how to stay out of it and win
The freezer. It's a stretch of time. It's a way of thinking. It's a point on a path.
creativity
writing
Apr 06, 2023
How I get more done using these four basic prompts
(author's note — I wrote this several years ago)
productivity
Mar 30, 2023
12 big reasons you need to quit your steady job
*Author's note: I wrote this a few years ago, but shared it because I believe it still holds relevance for many.
work
Mar 28, 2023
Ten motivational drawings for creators and entrepreneurs
I love how Instagram limits my creativity to a single square.
creativity
Mar 28, 2023
12 life-changing things I learned doing confidence drills in public
In my mid-twenties, I had tons of social anxiety.
self
Mar 24, 2023
Why many of us are in trouble, and four ways to gain an 'unfair advantage'
Look around you.
self
Mar 17, 2023
How to bring PLAY into your every day to 10X your performance and joy
Reality is scary.
creativity
self
Mar 16, 2023
11 Things That Stop You Being a Top 1% Creator
If you dislike the idea of 'cheating' your way to the top, look away now.
creativity
work
Mar 13, 2023
Will Smith can teach us. Here's how to control your anger
How to master emotional control that will save you pain in future.
society
self
Mar 12, 2023
The 7 worst pieces of advice young men must ignore to be fulfilled
As a highly analytical guy fascinated by human behaviour, I'm fortunate to have gathered unbiased insights many can miss.
relationships
Mar 09, 2023
How seeing business as an illusion will make you better a business (short)
It's amazing how many things we make real in our heads that are literally illusions.
business
psychology
work
Mar 04, 2023
We can't be totally happy unless we accept all of humanity (here's how)
The philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre once said that "hell is other people."
philosophy
self
Feb 13, 2023
The secret is to create your identity as a DOER by DOING.
For many years I blocked myself from taking action and seeing momentum because i thought I needed to feel ready.
self
Feb 11, 2023
Men, when she says 'he's so handsome,' this is who she sees...
For any of you guys familiar with the seedy back streets of night-time Bangkok, you may have heard a customary and oft-repeated...
relationships
Feb 05, 2023
This is how to obliterate (social) anxiety
A philosophy for living well
mental-health
self
Feb 03, 2023
If business were easy, what would that look like to you?
You wake up in a sweat.
work
startups
Jan 25, 2023
9 unpopular tips that will turn your life around as a man
Stop taking cutesy advice from the woefully uninformed and listen in.
self
Jan 21, 2023
Should we all quit social media?
I used to take social media so seriously, pining for likes.
social-media
Jan 20, 2023
Over 80 ideas for making books with your creative skills
We could all use a little extra income, especially the kind that we earn as we sleep.
creativity
writing
Jan 18, 2023
Why you need to stop trying to be positive
Stop trying to be positive.
self
Jan 17, 2023
How to rediscover your love for consistent study
It's funny.
self
Jan 17, 2023
What I learned writing thirty self-development articles in thirty days
*(author's note: I wrote this article a few years ago)
writing
Jan 13, 2023
Ten drawings that motivate me to make art
(And for anyone who makes things from nothing)
creativity
self
Jan 08, 2023
This is what separates an amateur from a master
Though I'm by no means a 'master,' from what I've seen, an amateur is physically tight and mentally loose (think of a newbie golfer...
self
Jan 07, 2023
Be the present-day embodiment of the person you want to be
"A sale is made when your conviction about something is stronger than the potential buyer's."
self
Jan 07, 2023
How to turn five dollars into a hundred, in an instant (on being 5% braver)
It's funny how much time and energy and frustration I would have saved in my life had I been braver.
self
Dec 30, 2022
11 (illustrated) motivating ideas for mastering your craft
For artists, creators, entrepreneurs, and game-changers.
creativity
Dec 27, 2022
If you struggle to get your creations out into the world, read this
You find it hard to get motivated to promote your art.
creativity
Dec 26, 2022
Why your creative work doesn't get engagement...
Something isn't quite right with my process.
self
Dec 25, 2022
Why consistently marketing your business is so hard, and how to make it effortless
As I've discussed in many articles, marketing yourself; your art; and your brand, properly and consistently is no longer a commendable...
marketing
Dec 25, 2022
Notes on how to price your work so that you earn 5x more each month
I often get asked about how to best price one's freelance work when working with clients.
freelancing
Dec 22, 2022
29 quick ways to feel good so you can get back to work
*(author's note: these is a republished piece from several years ago)
productivity
self
Dec 20, 2022
6 pretty deep thoughts about life and the world I discovered when I hit 30
*(Author's note — I wrote this several years ago when I turned 30–8 years ago)
self
Dec 20, 2022
"Wild Thyme" — A short story
The steering wheel judders in my sunburned hands. Small rocks crunch under the hard rubber of our silver Suzuki jeep, on the isolated...
fiction
Dec 18, 2022
Writing 5000 words an hour. An interview with author Chris Fox
(Author's note: this is a republished article from a couple of years ago)
writing
Dec 17, 2022
How to overcome writer's block and other creative blocks...
Writing when it feels effortless and it just flows is great.
writing
Dec 17, 2022
How to turn your 'wants' into 'MUSTS' so you 10X your productivity
Creating when you feel like it is one of the best feelings in the world.
productivity
self
Dec 16, 2022
This brutal mountaineering course in Poland taught me 8 crucial life lessons
Recently I decided to go on a mountaineering course in Poland.
travel
self
Dec 13, 2022
Why thinking positive doesn't work
Do this instead if you want to 10X your energy and be happy.
self
Dec 11, 2022
When I am creative, this happens...
I look for ways to improve the lives of others.
self
Dec 10, 2022
Why creative talent is not enough (and 4 ways to make an impact as a creator)
You make great art.
creativity
Dec 09, 2022
10 questions to making $10,000 per month
We have a love hate relationship with money.
money
Nov 30, 2022
Men, read these 11 commandments to avoid a life of pain
In a world becoming increasingly alien and hostile to men, we need all the help we can get.
self
Nov 17, 2022
How to survive the biggest creative job decline of all time
Succeed when creative work is being made and sold for cheap.
design
work
Nov 16, 2022
Be more productive by identifying your 'Apex Goal'
Goals are hard.
productivity
Nov 15, 2022
To create more, play more
Here's what I mean...
creativity
Oct 04, 2022
How to get TRACTION with your creative work: my three guidelines
You've been creating, making, doing and stressing, and STILL, the traction isn't there.
creativity
Sep 21, 2022
How to grow your small business using 'tasters'
If you have a business, you need to get people to do things.
marketing
Sep 16, 2022
24 ways you sabotage the growth of your solo business
'Self promotion.'
freelancing
Aug 18, 2022
Should I be a master of many or a master of ONE thing?
(*author's note: I am resharing this article from a few years back).
design
work
Aug 08, 2022
How I learned to stop specialising and became 10X happier
I have spent years in lost time, doubt and worry because I pressured myself into specialising.
self
work
Jul 29, 2022
A short comic about the bad things in life (featuring cats)
The world is a dark place...
comics
Jun 30, 2022
A short comic about happiness and struggle.
What choose you?
comics
Jun 05, 2022
Why we make self-promotion hard when it is not
If you really knew how many times I didn't take action out of fear in my life, you'd laugh.
self
Aug 09, 2020
The power of taking 'conscious walks'
It's raining here in Warsaw, Poland.
self
Aug 04, 2020
Finding peace thanks to the Coronavirus
Many of us are worried about the Coronavirus.
mental-health
self
Mar 22, 2020
The nourishing energy found in loving everything
It can hurt when stress curls its knotted fingers around our necks.
self
Jan 16, 2020
I almost quit making daily videos last week. These 8 reminders kept me on track.
Putting in hours of work day after day to little response on the Internet is one of the most irrational things a human can do.
social-media
Jul 25, 2019
How to melt away stuck, anxious feelings
Writing this article was hard.
self
Feb 13, 2019
Twelve Reasons to Join an Online Chat Community of Creative Minds
It can be lonely being a creative professional.
work
Sep 02, 2018
How to Promote Your Creative Business? Here's What I Do...
Red Lemon Show podcast Episode 2
Aug 24, 2018
New Podcast for Creative Minds: 'The Red Lemon Show'
Listen in for ideas on motivation, productivity, confidence, and making art.
Aug 24, 2018
Post-it Notes #2: Write lists every day
Brainstorm. Come up with hundreds of ideas. Then execute on the best idea/s.
creativity
Aug 03, 2018
Post-It Notes #1: 'The 300 Rule'
When do you reach 'traction?'
comics
Jul 12, 2018
Gone Reading
I'm taking some time off.
creativity
Jun 08, 2018
How the 'Red Lemon Club' logo was professionally redesigned
Graphic designer Claire Coullon and I discuss refreshing a brand
design
Apr 30, 2018
The A-Z Handbook for a Successful Creative Career
Yours today, for free
creativity
Sep 07, 2017
"Steam Room" - A Short Story
Duanphen was thinking of hot Thai stew with plenty of garlic. It was edging past the nine-hour mark of soapy water scouring and sore...
fiction
Apr 07, 2017
"Bangkok Onsen" - A Flash Story
Martin draped the minuscule complementary white towel nonchalantly over his front. Apart from that, he was completely naked, dripping wet...
fiction
Mar 29, 2017
"Silent Guest" - a Micro Story
He twiddled the thread at the end of his blazer sleeve. The deep silence was pierced by the reliable click of the Thomas the Tank Engine...
Mar 21, 2017
Knowing This Will Take Your Creative Business to the Next Level
"Good marketers see consumers as complete human beings with all the dimensions real people have." - Jonah Sachs
Feb 27, 2017
What Karaoke Teaches Us About Making an Impact With Our Art
At a Karaoke bar, you choose your favourite song and sing over a backing track awkwardly.
Feb 23, 2017
Why Motivated Creatives Think Like Andy Warhol
"The minute you're satisfied with where you are, you aren't there anymore." - Tony Gwynn
Feb 22, 2017
68 Ways to Make Money From Your Creative Skills
I've spent most of my life devising wacky and occasionally reasonable schemes for making money.
creativity
Feb 10, 2017
Why 'Idea Adventures' Have Become the Most Important Part of My Day
Many years ago, I made the decision to avoid a corporate lifestyle at all costs and earn a living working for myself writing and making...
self
Jan 19, 2017
What Is the Point of Making More Stuff?
How this idea always makes me feel better.
Jan 09, 2017
Seven Simple Daily Disciplines that Will Make You a Better Creative/Ninja
You've probably heard it rattled into your brain several times over the last few weeks, even days: if you want to get anywhere in life...
Jan 06, 2017
How to Get Dream Clients: An Illustrated Nutshell Guide
Many of us rely on a handful - or several - paying clients to run our businesses successfully over the year.
Nov 28, 2016
How to Explode Your Creative Business Through Shameless Honesty
Most of us understand the importance of being honest - of being our authentic selves in everyday life.
Nov 15, 2016
Three Steps to Figuring Out the Ideal Client for Your Creative Business
Before I get knee deep into this, I wanted to address some of the jargon I'll be using to describe various concepts and ideas and get it...
Nov 11, 2016
Is Promoting Your Art Desperate?
Self-promotion and marketing have a bad reputation. Drawing attention to ourselves, our art, and our brands feels like we're showing off or...
Nov 08, 2016
Why Creative People Should Bother Adding to the Noise
I was emailed by a subscriber recently who brought up, in my view, one of the most significant questions that we face as artists and...
Oct 19, 2016
Create For Yourself, Not for Anyone Else
One of the most valuable lessons of working as a freelancer over nine years has been the importance of doing work for myself, rather than...
May 18, 2016
7 Truths that Explain Why You're Winning Less than You Could Be
In a world in which most people are busy covering truths to save face and be nice to one another, sometimes we just need some words of...
self
May 08, 2016
How I Create More Time and Rarely Get Overwhelmed
I still have days where I feel distracted and get less done than I'd hoped. I still have moments where I feel stress and a lack of...
May 02, 2016
Why Building Your Own Assets Must Come Before All Else
I'm currently having one of my 'all the buses come at once' months where several illustration jobs have come in within the space of ten...
Apr 30, 2016
How a Death Metal Rocker Built a World Renowned Graphic Design Company
Radim Malinic is a good friend of mine who consistently amazes me with his ability to produce things of true quality.
Apr 06, 2016
How I Use My Body as a Tool to Beat Anxiety, Needless Fear and Gloom
I have written previously about social anxiety, where I emphasise three key areas in which to beat the problem: reducing 'latent' anxiety...
Mar 16, 2016
12 Ways You Can Outsource Work to Help You Promote Your Creative Business
There are many forces that can pull us away from making a decision to get outside help in growing our businesses and making things run more...
Mar 14, 2016
Four Lessons About Life I Learned from Bombing on Stage in Front of Hundreds
I had no belief in what I was saying and I remember feeling really guilty that I'd let the crowd down with an underwhelming presentation.
Mar 09, 2016
The Three Pillars to Being Unstoppable in Life
Wouldn't it be sweet to feel more motivated, more alive, more upbeat, more awake, more of the time?
Mar 05, 2016
A Quick List for Freelancers for Being Ready to Make Good Money as Recession Looms
Money is on my mind.
money
Feb 27, 2016
6 Ways I've Made Good Money that You Can Use When You're Close to the Red
When you run your own businesses and work entirely for yourself, the biggest challenge is ensuring you have more money coming in than is...
Feb 24, 2016
The Best Way to Contact People for Generating New Paid Work
I regularly emphasise that the best thing you can do for your freelance business (or any business, really) is to regularly connect with...
Jan 15, 2016
Over-delivery is the only way to do business as a stand out creative
Anyone can do what is expected of them as a professional creative. Sounds like a good thing, yes?
Nov 22, 2015
How to Dominate Your Market and Win as a Creative Freelancer in this Slow Economy
The message we're getting about the global economic situation via the media is clear: it ain't great. And it does not look set to improve...
Jan 24, 2015
Life is About the Destination, Not the Journey
One of the biggest misconceptions in contemporary cultural ideology is the often over-emphasised idea that "life is about the journey and...
Jan 13, 2015
6 Simple Steps to Building an Automated Money-Making System with Your Creative Skills
Let's be honest here. Most of us want more time and more money. Both will help us create more art.
Aug 29, 2014
50 Ways for Creative People to Get Great Clients
What's the best way you can generate new client projects each month?
Aug 27, 2014
What is the Most Undervalued Tool You Have to Achieve and Create Whatever You Want?
When we look at various people's successes and achievements, we often try to make sense of how they got there.
Aug 09, 2014
You failed but you are not a failure
Many of us have experiences in our past that, for whatever reason, we have felt ashamed, guilty or embarrassed about, that we want to hide...
self
Aug 06, 2014
Six unconventional ways to create a ton more time in your life
Today I wanted to give you some ideas for making more time in your life.
Aug 05, 2014
5 reasons you're struggling with few clients and little income right now
Many of us are struggling to keep our little businesses alive, especially over the summer months. In most cases, we're neglecting to take...
Aug 05, 2014